I recently had a Christian friend ask to come over and do some work at my house as her internet was out. While she was in my home, she told me that she was feeling unwell but that it was from something that she ate and her allergies. Later that day she called me to tell me that her family, whom she had spent the weekend with, had the C virus, but she didn't believe in it, and wasn't going to get tested. I was upset, and felt very used and betrayed. I have a sister whom I had planned to visit who has stage 4 cancer, and I have been VERY careful about any exposure for 2 weeks each time I go to spend time with her. I became upset on the phone, and insisted that she get tested. She finally agreed, and of course the test came back positive. I then had to quarantine and get tested myself, and I wasn't able to see my sister.
Now this friend doesn't understand why I feel so used and betrayed, and has been texting me scriptures about forgiveness and judgement. I don't even know how to respond at this point. It has taken me a while to even process what happened . . . why did she even come to my house and expose me and my family when she could have gone to a Starbucks or anywhere else that has internet to do her work, especially when she knew my sister's situation and that I was planning to go see her. I'm not sure how to move forward from here. I know that I need to forgive her, but I fear that the friendship is irrepairably broken. Advice??
Now this friend doesn't understand why I feel so used and betrayed, and has been texting me scriptures about forgiveness and judgement. I don't even know how to respond at this point. It has taken me a while to even process what happened . . . why did she even come to my house and expose me and my family when she could have gone to a Starbucks or anywhere else that has internet to do her work, especially when she knew my sister's situation and that I was planning to go see her. I'm not sure how to move forward from here. I know that I need to forgive her, but I fear that the friendship is irrepairably broken. Advice??