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I am starting to develop a fear for face masks. I can wear one even though I sometimes have trouble breathing. The issue I have is that I am having difficulty seeing people wearing them. They can make the kindest or prettiest girl look like a craze serial killer.

I have been going out but I have been finding it more difficult. I even had the life group put hands and me and prayed which I though I was done with it until the following day I had it bad and had to come home early.

Last Friday started out bad seeing it on the news which I don't watch but my family does. It got better when I talked to my friend. He helped me through it. We prayed. I then talked to my female friend and she prayed for me too.

However hanging out with my other friend on Saturday I felt uncomfortable. One was wearing a mask that made him look real creepy. Then my friends wife was wearing one and she looked crazed. I then took my glasses off and walked home head down trying to avoid cars which makes it that I accidentally look at people.

Yesterday started out bad going to the after virtual Church physical park Church. I got nervous going there after spotting many mask wearing people out in the street. I then made it to the park and I was fine as I meet a friend I have not talking to her in a while. Also some had their masks down so I felt better. I was fine there even walking home I was okay.

The issue I have is that I can be walking and just spot one person with a mask and it gets to me and I go into fight or flight mode and have to get home quickly. I then put a image blocker in my browser so I don't accidental spot a mask wearing image.

I don't care if they are suppose to protect. They look creepy an I have no worries I am going to catch Covid I have worries that Covid is going to make me have a nervous breakdown and lose it.
 

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I don't care if they are suppose to protect. They look creepy an I have no worries I am going to catch Covid I have worries that Covid is going to make me have a nervous breakdown and lose it.

Not much you can do about other people wearing masks apart from avoiding them I guess.


Trekking outside somewhere in the woods where there are less people and nobody bothers with masks might help.
 
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I am starting to develop a fear for face masks. I can wear one even though I sometimes have trouble breathing. The issue I have is that I am having difficulty seeing people wearing them. They can make the kindest or prettiest girl look like a craze serial killer.
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Well that is the reverse of myself. I sometimes have problems wearing them for something longer than a short shopping trip or errand. The breathing in hot air etc. makes me feel like I'm suffocating...
 
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As I said I don't like wearing them as I have trouble breathing so most of the time I only wear them when at a store.

I am having an extremely hard time seeing people wearing them. Right now I am at the park walking and seeing them is starting to put me in a fight or flight mode. I hate not seeing full faces and smiles.

They all remind me of Cyberman from Doctor Who with no emotions. I never though the masks would catch on and I am still shocked which keeps me up at night thar many actually ate wearing them especially the younger people.
 
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I am starting to develop a fear for face masks. I can wear one even though I sometimes have trouble breathing. The issue I have is that I am having difficulty seeing people wearing them. They can make the kindest or prettiest girl look like a craze serial killer.

I have been going out but I have been finding it more difficult. I even had the life group put hands and me and prayed which I though I was done with it until the following day I had it bad and had to come home early.

Last Friday started out bad seeing it on the news which I don't watch but my family does. It got better when I talked to my friend. He helped me through it. We prayed. I then talked to my female friend and she prayed for me too.

However hanging out with my other friend on Saturday I felt uncomfortable. One was wearing a mask that made him look real creepy. Then my friends wife was wearing one and she looked crazed. I then took my glasses off and walked home head down trying to avoid cars which makes it that I accidentally look at people.

Yesterday started out bad going to the after virtual Church physical park Church. I got nervous going there after spotting many mask wearing people out in the street. I then made it to the park and I was fine as I meet a friend I have not talking to her in a while. Also some had their masks down so I felt better. I was fine there even walking home I was okay.

The issue I have is that I can be walking and just spot one person with a mask and it gets to me and I go into fight or flight mode and have to get home quickly. I then put a image blocker in my browser so I don't accidental spot a mask wearing image.

I don't care if they are suppose to protect. They look creepy an I have no worries I am going to catch Covid I have worries that Covid is going to make me have a nervous breakdown and lose it.

Your reactions to people wearing masks are not normal. It's understandable to feel a little "off" about people in masks, since our brains are designed to take in information that is provided by seeing all of a person's face at one time. But this extreme anxiety and avoidance is not normal nor healthy. I would encourage you to speak to whoever your therapist or counselor may be, to see if you can get some help in learning to cope better.
 
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I been talking on by text and phone calls with my male and female friends from Church. They are helping me a lot and are real concerned about me. They are praying for me and tell me to pray which I have to do more.
 
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I been talking on by text and phone calls with my male and female friends from Church. They are helping me a lot and are real concerned about me. They are praying for me and tell me to pray which I have to do more.

Friends are great, and prayers are great. But sometimes we need the help of the professionals that God has gifted to us here on earth, too :) Just something to bear in mind.
 
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I know but if I did not make friends last year before this pandemic hit I would have been worse off.

Also because of this I developed unhealthy habits with certain types of videos I don't want to get into. But yes I am seeking therapy too but I don't want my medication doubled again.
 
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