A thing I think of is if we seek pleasure and convenience, our weakness for pleasure and convenience can help to keep us weak so we can also suffer spiritual and emotional pain.
And if we try to make people do things our way, including by arguing and pressuring people and
feeling entitled, this also can keep us weak so we can deeply suffer.
But God
"gives us richly all things to enjoy," our Apostle Paul does say, in 1 Timothy 6:17. So, God is not anti-pleasure, plus He does work things out for us, in our circumstances. But in the process, we need to pray so we are appreciative of nice things, and enough is enough > "be content with such things as you have," we have in Hebrews 13:5.
However - - - always be ready for how we will be tested, along with how things might go our way. We need to stay strong and ready, because as Jesus shares very good things with us, Satan can be allowed to test our blessings with even the exact opposite. But as we stay with God, we marvel at how He keeps the blessings He is committed to, in spite of Satan's messing.
But people can try to isolate themselves and protect their little treasure pleasures and convenience and security for getting things their way; but this keeps them weak. And they likely can't handle relating well with a variety of people, with ready patience and ready forgiveness and kindness when people turn out to be wrong, somehow. So, they hide because deeply they are weak and maybe afraid of getting hurt or having people who will interfere with their treasures; and so they miss out on love and can wonder why they are so lonely and bored >
In finding out how to love, we have our most worthwhile challenge and adventure and education . . . in sharing with God . . . not on our own. He makes us strong enough, and creative