I Feel A Girl Hate Me!

[ABCthings]

Okay, I'm here because I don't really know who I should tell this to. (I dun wanna look bad I mean I'm still kind of young).

So there is this certain girl which whenever I look at her eyes I feel she hates me. She doesn't greet me or act anyway friendly towards me(and me alone).

At first I was curious, then I didn't really care much, I shrugged it off saying "Well, not everyone must love me". So I pretended as though I didn't notice anything and would act normally to her as I would to anyone else. Initially I must say It worked a bit.

But now it getting really disturbing. So much that whenever I see her and I remember she doesn't like me, I feel some kind of hatred growing in me.
I just kinda wish she go out of existence, "Boom", disappear from my world or something like that.
But na, I'm forced to see her every single time('cause we are in the same church, the same choir and her house isn't far mine at all). Tormenting isn't it?

Actually, I'm not concern about her own supposed hatred(It's her life after all).
I just want to do something about mine because I don't want to do anything unpleasant.

What do you think I should do? Talk to her. or pray and continue ignoring it. It's been almost 2 years now.

 

[rockytopva]

Freedom from man’s (and woman’s) opinion. Young pastor explaining that there are three desires of man.... Acceptance.... Appreciation.... Attention! And we need to break free of these!

 

[ABCthings]

Freedom from man’s (and woman’s) opinion. Young pastor explaining that there are three desires of man.... Acceptance.... Appreciation.... Attention! And we need to break free of these!
https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=gLqafYWE4A0

I wish you could summary the video for me. Because it almost 00:00 here and I need to be up in 5hrs.

But I think we all desire/want the Acceptance, Appreciation and Attention of others to some extent.

 

[Sketcher]

Okay, I'm here because I don't really know who I should tell this to. (I dun wanna look bad I mean I'm still kind of young).

So there is this certain girl which whenever I look at her eyes I feel she hates me. She doesn't greet me or act anyway friendly towards me(and me alone).

At first I was curious, then I didn't really care much, I shrugged it off saying "Well, not everyone must love me". So I pretended as though I didn't notice anything and would act normally to her as I would to anyone else. Initially I must say It worked a bit.

But now it getting really disturbing. So much that whenever I see her and I remember she doesn't like me, I feel some kind of hatred growing in me.
I just kinda wish she go out of existence, "Boom", disappear from my world or something like that.
But na, I'm forced to see her every single time('cause we are in the same church, the same choir and her house isn't far mine at all). Tormenting isn't it?

Actually, I'm not concern about her own supposed hatred(It's her life after all).
I just want to do something about mine because I don't want to do anything unpleasant.

What do you think I should do? Talk to her. or pray and continue ignoring it. It's been almost 2 years now.

Is this the first time that someone didn't like you as much as you had expected or something?

Some people just don't like other people. It is not worth pursuing any sort of relationship or interaction with them.

 

[ABCthings]

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[ABCthings]

Is this the first time that someone didn't like you as much as you had expected or something?

Some people just don't like other people. It is not worth pursuing any sort of relationship or interaction with them.

No, not the first time but other times I've had the advantage of avoiding them completely so it wasn't a big deal.

I just wish there is a kind of fix I can do to stop her from ruining my happy moments. (Yep, I enjoy the fallacy of a world where everyone is happy with one another )


But from the little I know of her and by her words. She is a type that can decided whether or not to like a person at first sight.
And with that habit, whenever she choose not to like a person, there's nothing on earth that person can do to change that.

Meaning SHE'S IRREDEEMABLE.

So I'm hoping I'll find a way of getting used to it.

 

[AppleCider]

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