I was wondering if someone could give me some guidance on a situation where the girl in question is mad at me but the reason for her being mad at me is not because of me. More importantly I am referring to how I should go about starting a conversation with her because she is "IMPORTANT" to me.
Here is the situation, I upset her somehow in someway I don't know so dont ask. I gave her space like a month(close to) and a coworker of mine decided to get involved because he wanted to make me suffer(also very complicated to explain). So after he got involved by means of talking to my Sensei at class, my Sensei decided to talk to the both of us but of course individually starting with her. I have no idea what she said but after talking with him I felt very violated as I don't like it when people pry into my personal life without being needed or requested by anyone who is actually involved. She is the same hence the problem.
So About 2 weeks later she found out that the guy who got sensei involved was someone who works with me and she has decided to give me the silent treatment where as before I could atleast talk to her to a point and get some kind of response. Its now been about another 2ish weeks since that started. I don't know what to say to her and I need to say something because I can't stand my best friend go on hating me forever when we were starting to get better.
I will be talking with her on wednesday and I have no idea how I should start it.
FYI please dont say drop it or leave it alone or find another girl because SHE IS IMPORTANT TO ME. I don't know how to explain it but life would feel like a mistake if she wasnt in it.
Here is the situation, I upset her somehow in someway I don't know so dont ask. I gave her space like a month(close to) and a coworker of mine decided to get involved because he wanted to make me suffer(also very complicated to explain). So after he got involved by means of talking to my Sensei at class, my Sensei decided to talk to the both of us but of course individually starting with her. I have no idea what she said but after talking with him I felt very violated as I don't like it when people pry into my personal life without being needed or requested by anyone who is actually involved. She is the same hence the problem.
So About 2 weeks later she found out that the guy who got sensei involved was someone who works with me and she has decided to give me the silent treatment where as before I could atleast talk to her to a point and get some kind of response. Its now been about another 2ish weeks since that started. I don't know what to say to her and I need to say something because I can't stand my best friend go on hating me forever when we were starting to get better.
I will be talking with her on wednesday and I have no idea how I should start it.
FYI please dont say drop it or leave it alone or find another girl because SHE IS IMPORTANT TO ME. I don't know how to explain it but life would feel like a mistake if she wasnt in it.