- Aug 24, 2019
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- Pentecostal
- Marital Status
- Married
Hello fellow ladies and gentlemen.I'm puzzled at my wife behavior. November 2018, I was across the street and I observed her walking down the street with a guy. Bear in mind she like big guys. This guy was bigger than me and they were talking and smiling. Needless to say I felt jealous. Later at home I told her how I felt seeing them. Fast forward. I comes home one more day and he is in her office along with another common friend of the 3 of us. The guy, my wife, and myself. I didn't join them but I sat away from them and after they left I told her again that he make me feel jealous. I have to mention that my wife is also the pastor of our local church. Her office is located at the rear of the church. Well fast forward again. June 2019. I come home on 3 different occasions and finds him alone with my wife. Than I also noticed they are now FB friends. One day I was there alone with my wife and he shows up. I told him I'm not comfortable with him being alone with my wife. They both said that there is nothing going on that he just need someone to talk with. I told him to go and find an available woman and leave my woman alone. I made it clear to him , he is welcome at the church and the food pantry we running but I don't want him alone with my wife/pastor. He lied and told my son, who is 32 years old, that I told him not come round anymore. Based on that my wife decided not to talk with him anymore. My take is, once she knew I was jea!ous of him she should not entertain him alone because a man and a woman meeting alone on a regular basis is grounds for feelings to grow. Her claim is she is doing the Lord's work and has no feelings for him as a man. We went thru some struggles because of this issue. My main point of contention is that she has no respect for me as her husband. she refuses to admit she didn't exercise sound judgement hanging out with him after I told her how I felt. What is you all take on this issue?