- Oct 3, 2017
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This is probably going to be a fairly long post, and there is a lot of things that are on my mind about this topic so I do apologize in advance if my ideas seem to be all over the place. I'll try and start from the beginning.
So, there is this girl that I've had feelings for, for a very long time and we both attend the same church. We have been friends for almost 2 years and in those 2 years we have learned a lot about each other but I feel like there is still much more to learn as well. Now, she lives with her mother, as well as 2 younger siblings, and when she initially told her mother that I liked her, she was super excited and so she has always been an advocate of us dating each other. When we had went on our first date together to the movies, her mom sparked the idea in my head to just do something simple for our first date. On our second date, her and I both went to Red Lobster which was back during Valentines Day (I believe it was Valentines Day weekend) and it was very fun for both of us. We both opened up about our feelings and shared some really personal things about us that we don't normally share. After this date, things for some reason had just fallen off and I can't seem to figure out what happened. She did express interest in going out again but I don't know what happened. After about a week, she would just stop answering my messages, but she would still always answer when I called her she seemed disinterested. When we saw each other in person sometimes she would look at me and smile but now she just avoids me which is weird because I don't know what I did. Eventually, I just cut all contact, and at this point her mother noticed because we always would talk so much.
Yesterday, her mother and I happened to run into each other while we were going home, and she asked me if I had given up on Autumn(that's her name). I told her honestly, I don't know but kind of. I still really like her, and sometimes I still get nervous when I see her in the hallways at church even though we aren't even talking to each other right now. When I told this to her mom, she just gave me a big hug, and told me "Don't throw in the towel just yet. Autumn can't be a bit stubborn sometimes but do't give up. Just pray about it" The we both smiled at each other and left. I've been praying about the situation a lot before this, and I don't know what to do. Please help.
So, there is this girl that I've had feelings for, for a very long time and we both attend the same church. We have been friends for almost 2 years and in those 2 years we have learned a lot about each other but I feel like there is still much more to learn as well. Now, she lives with her mother, as well as 2 younger siblings, and when she initially told her mother that I liked her, she was super excited and so she has always been an advocate of us dating each other. When we had went on our first date together to the movies, her mom sparked the idea in my head to just do something simple for our first date. On our second date, her and I both went to Red Lobster which was back during Valentines Day (I believe it was Valentines Day weekend) and it was very fun for both of us. We both opened up about our feelings and shared some really personal things about us that we don't normally share. After this date, things for some reason had just fallen off and I can't seem to figure out what happened. She did express interest in going out again but I don't know what happened. After about a week, she would just stop answering my messages, but she would still always answer when I called her she seemed disinterested. When we saw each other in person sometimes she would look at me and smile but now she just avoids me which is weird because I don't know what I did. Eventually, I just cut all contact, and at this point her mother noticed because we always would talk so much.
Yesterday, her mother and I happened to run into each other while we were going home, and she asked me if I had given up on Autumn(that's her name). I told her honestly, I don't know but kind of. I still really like her, and sometimes I still get nervous when I see her in the hallways at church even though we aren't even talking to each other right now. When I told this to her mom, she just gave me a big hug, and told me "Don't throw in the towel just yet. Autumn can't be a bit stubborn sometimes but do't give up. Just pray about it" The we both smiled at each other and left. I've been praying about the situation a lot before this, and I don't know what to do. Please help.