Hey all,
After 17 years, I am finally dating again. Just to let you know. It was by accident, but I wanted to focus on my career and improve my financial status. Anyways, I finally prayed to God and told him to send someone my way . I met someone wonderful in another country (which is what I wanted). He treats me great. His family is Christian. I am fluent in the language so there are no barriers there. I am only concerned because of two factors: 1) his socioeconomic status is much lower than mine (there is a grave difference) 2) he has 4 children. I have no children at all and was never married. I have met his mom and family. I have been to his home (so he is single), and he is open to marrying me in the future. It has only been a short period of time. He wants to be officially boyfriend and girlfriend. I am more skeptical and need more time before committing. What are your thoughts or opinions? Are the above two factors dealbreakers? (Mature responses please, thank you.)
After 17 years, I am finally dating again. Just to let you know. It was by accident, but I wanted to focus on my career and improve my financial status. Anyways, I finally prayed to God and told him to send someone my way . I met someone wonderful in another country (which is what I wanted). He treats me great. His family is Christian. I am fluent in the language so there are no barriers there. I am only concerned because of two factors: 1) his socioeconomic status is much lower than mine (there is a grave difference) 2) he has 4 children. I have no children at all and was never married. I have met his mom and family. I have been to his home (so he is single), and he is open to marrying me in the future. It has only been a short period of time. He wants to be officially boyfriend and girlfriend. I am more skeptical and need more time before committing. What are your thoughts or opinions? Are the above two factors dealbreakers? (Mature responses please, thank you.)