- Jun 9, 2019
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Wait, are you saying this is a serial problem? Are you talking about the same person or a different person? And are you saying that your feelings for this person are unresolved?
Here is the problem: You haven't repented.
Think: What do you actually want your husband to do?
I point this out because men do not commiserate, men do not "share" problems, men seek to kill the problem, and if he can't kill the problem, he will become frustrated and then angry. If you do not know what you actually want your husband to do to kill the problem, or if there is nothing he can do, then it's not yet time for him to become involved with it.
I'll repeat what I've said before: Find a Christian woman mentor, preferably older, preferably in your congregation, definitely someone in person, not online. Work with one or two other women first.
It's a serial problem, with different people. But my feelings for this current person are unresolved.
Ok I'll look into finding an older female Christian mentor as you suggested. Thank you
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