Is this out of line?

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I don't have a body image problem I have a problem with another girl dressing like a S infront of my SO. I really don't care about treating them kind I care about letting them know it's not okay to advertise to someone who's taken. And yeah that's how I take it you dress half naked you're advertising. sorry Hun but I'm pregnant rn so body image isn't a thing for me. Most pregnant women look pregnant no matter what we so no I don't care about my body image rn.
Yep, you're really looking at the heart here.
 
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Female alpha dog syndrome lol long story short
Alpha females are secure in their relationships and ignore other women vying for attention. You look weak, childish, and insecure if you show jealousy or act as if another woman bothers you. He will end up cheating on you or leave you for a stronger woman who is confident in her own value. You don’t own your boyfriend, but if he disrespects you by staring or flirting with other women, be the alpha female you say you are and leave him.
 
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Is it out of line to tell other women to put clothes on if you see them walking out In front of your SO wearing booty shorts with a tank top? Or bending down to pet your dog?

If I can't say anything is it petty to get a t-shirt that says put some clothes on h?

Last resort if both those are petty is it okay to put on a bikini top and prance around when I see their boyfriend's just to prove my point. Sure they won't like it just as much as I don't.

Don't bother. Your BF sees enough of that when you're not around.
 
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Alpha females are secure in their relationships and ignore other women vying for attention. You look weak, childish, and insecure if you show jealousy or act as if another woman bothers you. He will end up cheating on you or leave you for a stronger woman who is confident in her own value. You don’t own your boyfriend, but if he disrespects you by staring or flirting with other women, be the alpha female you say you are and leave him.

That's stupid guys dont cheat because of that they cheat because they want to lol. A cheater is going to cheat because that's who they are.
 
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Alpha females are secure in their relationships and ignore other women vying for attention. You look weak, childish, and insecure if you show jealousy or act as if another woman bothers you. He will end up cheating on you or leave you for a stronger woman who is confident in her own value. You don’t own your boyfriend, but if he disrespects you by staring or flirting with other women, be the alpha female you say you are and leave him.
Do u have a relationship cause you want me to leave mine? Thats alot of these haters on this forum lol.
 
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Don't bother. Your BF sees enough of that when you're not around.

Well duh but I don't have to tolerate it when I am. Other women need to stop prostituting themselves to other people's spouses and boyfriend's. That's exactly what it is because they put it all on display for attention because they can't get a man any other way.

Anyway are you trolling me? You are on all my threads.
 
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Yep, you're really looking at the heart here.

The heart says I'm thata dirty something that needs attention so I prostitute myself to everyone else's SO. That's what their heart says to me. I have no sympathy for women like that at all. They need to be removed from the planet because they are homewreckers. Nobody likes homewreckers.
 
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That's stupid guys dont cheat because of that they cheat because they want to lol. A cheater is going to cheat because that's who they are.
If you want him to respect you, don’t act insecure and childish. Jealousy is a HUGE turnoff and makes you look weak. If you think cheaters are gonna cheat no matter what, then why are you trying to control what he sees?
 
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Do u have a relationship cause you want me to leave mine? Thats alot of these haters on this forum lol.
What do you mean? I’m married. You can take the advice or leave it. Let men treat you like crap and treat other people like crap if that’s what you want.
 
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If you want him to respect you, don’t act insecure and childish. Jealousy is a HUGE turnoff and makes you look weak. If you think cheaters are gonna cheat no matter what, then why are you trying to control what he sees?

Um because I don't like women forcing my boyfriend to sleep with them visually. I'm not sure any woman in a committed relationship likes that. And I'm 27 I'm not a child and because I don't like promiscuity doesn't mean I'm childish.
 
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Well duh but I don't have to tolerate it when I am. Other women need to stop prostituting themselves to other people's spouses and boyfriend's. That's exactly what it is because they put it all on display for attention because they can't get a man any other way.

Anyway are you trolling me? You are on all my threads.

Not trolling at all, God forbid. I wasn't paying attention to the posters, just replying to newest threads. Had no idea who I was replying to and wether it was the same person or not

Always giving my honest opinion anyways
 
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Um because I don't like women forcing my boyfriend to sleep with them visually. I'm not sure any woman in a committed relationship likes that. And I'm 27 I'm not a child and because I don't like promiscuity doesn't mean I'm childish.
I think you’re missing my point. Of course you don’t like it, no woman would. You’re not a child for not liking promiscuity, but you would be acting childish in other people’s eyes if you act jealous and insecure and attacked the other women. If you want your boyfriend to stop looking at them, you should think through a good strategy rather than just letting your emotions and insecurities take over. Why don’t you just tell him to stop, and if he doesn’t, leave him. There are plenty of men out there who aren’t so disrespectful as to ogle other women in front of their partners.
 
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I think you’re missing my point. Of course you don’t like it, no woman would. You’re not a child for not liking promiscuity, but you would be acting childish in other people’s eyes if you act jealous and insecure and attacked the other women. If you want your boyfriend to stop looking at them, you should think through a good strategy rather than just letting your emotions and insecurities take over. Why don’t you just tell him to stop, and if he doesn’t, leave him. There are plenty of men out there who aren’t so disrespectful as to ogle other women in front of their partners.

You are missing my point and clearly don't read. Go back and read my very first post. I never said my boyfriend is looking at other women. He doesn't. He makes a point to look elsewhere or not look at all if women are dressed promiscuous around him. So the fault really falls on the women here. My boyfriend isn't doing anything wrong by just existing. It's women that go out of their way to get attention. It's prostitution. Sorry but feminism is everything wrong with this country right now and that's why women go out of their way to act thot like now days and they think they can act however and then blame men. Same reason we have all the fake sexual harrasment claims out there just thots trying to get attention when no one is worried about them.
 
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You are missing my point and clearly don't read. Go back and read my very first post. I never said my boyfriend is looking at other women. He doesn't. He makes a point to look elsewhere or not look at all if women are dressed promiscuous around him. So the fault really falls on the women here. My boyfriend isn't doing anything wrong by just existing. It's women that go out of their way to get attention. It's prostitution. Sorry but feminism is everything wrong with this country right now and that's why women go out of their way to act thot like now days and they think they can act however and then blame men. Same reason we have all the fake sexual harrasment claims out there just thots trying to get attention when no one is worried about them.

You could go to any random grocery store do you see guys running around with their shirts off or wearing speedos no but literally 90% of the women will have their boobs hanging out and butts hanging out if shorts that are more like underwear. Or wearing leggings as pants do they are see through. There's a problem with women. Sorry but we need to stop blaming men for women's bad behavior.
 
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You are missing my point and clearly don't read. Go back and read my very first post. I never said my boyfriend is looking at other women. He doesn't. He makes a point to look elsewhere or not look at all if women are dressed promiscuous around him. So the fault really falls on the women here. My boyfriend isn't doing anything wrong by just existing. It's women that go out of their way to get attention. It's prostitution. Sorry but feminism is everything wrong with this country right now and that's why women go out of their way to act thot like now days and they think they can act however and then blame men. Same reason we have all the fake sexual harrasment claims out there just thots trying to get attention when no one is worried about them.
My main point was that acting jealous, acting like you care AT ALL about those other women makes you look weak and immature. If your boyfriend isn’t looking, what is the problem anyway? I’d advise you to speak to a counselor or therapist, your concern with other women’s dress and morality seems a bit obsessive, if your boyfriend isn’t even looking at it.
 
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My main point was that acting jealous, acting like you care AT ALL about those other women makes you look weak and immature. If your boyfriend isn’t looking, what is the problem anyway? I’d advise you to speak to a counselor or therapist, your concern with other women’s dress and morality seems a bit obsessive, if your boyfriend isn’t even looking at it.

The problem is that I don't need some girl trying to solicit attention from my boyfriend by dressing like a sleaze bag. Girls only dress that way because their goal is to steal someone's boyfriend and get attention duh. If other women ran around in thongs in front of your husband you would be dumb to not be annoyed.

I've heard other women on hear get mad about it like I do.

I feel like u have to be one of those feminists or liberals to feel that way. Other people's actions are not my business blah blah blah so full of it.
 
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You’ve been given good advice and would be wise to take it. The trouble with bravado is the reality there’s always someone bolder. Your attempt to correct them may spark a response you didn’t expect. And you may open a can of worms you’ll have trouble closing.

If you instigate trouble don’t expect God to bail you out. Leave them alone and put your focus elsewhere.
 
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