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Thanks for your post. I do want to have a God centered, God focused life and I try to live this out in front of my wife, kids and what friends that I have.
I am just feeling burned out with a very uneventful and boring life. It has gone on for a decade now and I am at the point where I am really wondering if this is all there is. The hands of time are ticking and I am mindful that I am not getting any younger. It would be nice to start feeling some zest and enthusiasm for life instead of feeling like I have been sucker punched.
All I feel like I am doing is just running a business (with just me) and that is about it.
Our marriage is strong and our family is strong too, but I just feel like there is nothing happening.
You know that's called a midlife crisis yes?
Your not the first person to feel like this and you won't be the last. As our children get older we all start feeling stuck and bored a bit for a while and do a bit of soul searching.
It's a really good time to pick up a hobby or two... it will occupy your time and give you something interesting and new to focus on that's safe. Far safer than throwing your family into turmoil (and your marriage in jeopardy) as you consider dragging them halfway across the world again anyway.
And that's all it is, in the end. While I love this country (America) even I had a time where I had to wonder who I was, and what I wanted out of life when my kids were grown.
I think it's normal and natural for us all to find ourselves going through motions at one point in our life, and desire more, look for more. Wonder what we are doing..
hobbies are made for midlife crisises. You need that new car smell (figure of speech). There is woodworking, golf or sports, photography. Just find something new to do that has a decent amount of learning involved..
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