A bit of background on us... We are a Christian family (wife and I have been Christians since childhood) and have been married for over two decades with kids now in the mid teens.
For about the last decade now, we have found ourselves to just be treading water and going through the motions with life. Kind of like ground hog day, over and over and over and over again. There is no real sense of purpose (other than serving God as best we can, providing for the family and witnessing to people we come in contact with) and there is no real sense of challenge or joy or contentment. It gets me down, but Wife is extremely bored with life seems semi depressed about our situation. I feel like the wind is no longer in my sails either. Financially we are ok (not rich, but not in trouble) and we are all mostly healthy. Wife works full time and I run my own small business from home.
We live in Australia, but had the wonderful opportunity of living in the USA twice. First time we lived in the USA was totally amazing and wonderful. I never wanted to leave, but wife got homesick). Second time we lived there was meant to be permanent, but wife got homesick again and we returned to Australia. Since being back in Australia, we see that God has cared for us and blessed us with his provision, however life just seems to suck. Nothing really going on, no sense of belonging here, my family is totally estranged and most of wife's family relationships are strained (except for her parents - dear people).
I just feel that something has to change. I have no idea what this would look like or what it would be, but something has to change... I find myself absolutely yearning for life in the US again, but wife has significant fears about the US health system and the gun laws (which I can understand) and I would never embark on life back in the US with her having these fears. I manage to stay in touch with a few American mates and I envy the lives they all lead.
I just don't know what to think or do anymore... I don't know if this post even makes sense.
Mostly I just try to bury these feelings and soldier on, but sometimes it gets a bit hard going.
Anyway, does anyone else experience something like this or have any pearls of wisdom to throw my way?
For about the last decade now, we have found ourselves to just be treading water and going through the motions with life. Kind of like ground hog day, over and over and over and over again. There is no real sense of purpose (other than serving God as best we can, providing for the family and witnessing to people we come in contact with) and there is no real sense of challenge or joy or contentment. It gets me down, but Wife is extremely bored with life seems semi depressed about our situation. I feel like the wind is no longer in my sails either. Financially we are ok (not rich, but not in trouble) and we are all mostly healthy. Wife works full time and I run my own small business from home.
We live in Australia, but had the wonderful opportunity of living in the USA twice. First time we lived in the USA was totally amazing and wonderful. I never wanted to leave, but wife got homesick). Second time we lived there was meant to be permanent, but wife got homesick again and we returned to Australia. Since being back in Australia, we see that God has cared for us and blessed us with his provision, however life just seems to suck. Nothing really going on, no sense of belonging here, my family is totally estranged and most of wife's family relationships are strained (except for her parents - dear people).
I just feel that something has to change. I have no idea what this would look like or what it would be, but something has to change... I find myself absolutely yearning for life in the US again, but wife has significant fears about the US health system and the gun laws (which I can understand) and I would never embark on life back in the US with her having these fears. I manage to stay in touch with a few American mates and I envy the lives they all lead.
I just don't know what to think or do anymore... I don't know if this post even makes sense.
Mostly I just try to bury these feelings and soldier on, but sometimes it gets a bit hard going.
Anyway, does anyone else experience something like this or have any pearls of wisdom to throw my way?