I jumped back on the online dating band wagon and had come across this woman's profile. She mentions she's Christian looking for the same. She gave me a pretty good lengthy response answering my questions. One of my questions is where I had noticed her height preference was at least 5'10" (she's 5'6") I am 5'8".
I asked her since she lived locally and we are both one of very few Christian singles in these parts (most here are married), would she give a shorter guy a shot.
She said, "As far as height, if the gentleman was the person had God selected, his height would not be a deal breaker"
Now, forgive me if I may come off as irreverent, but had not asked he what God's stance is on height. I was asking because this is a personal question reflective on individual preference.
It kind of made me wonder if she's one of those types that uses God as a reason to get out of things they personally don't like or the put the onus on God when someone confronts them with a question they are uncomfortable asking.
I remember talking to a friend about a dilemma. They didn't offer feedback at all, and just say, "pray about it" and it wasn't like a crisis situation or anything which typically is more desirable of prayer, but something having to do with a pesky, minor situation.
I hear some people use God as an excuse to dump a person they simply had grown apart with.
It seems Christians use God as a great scapegoat to get out of answering questions vs those who can simply answer such questions themselves, yes?
Maybe "Scapegoat" isn't the word I'm looking for...but cop-out? Yes?
I asked her since she lived locally and we are both one of very few Christian singles in these parts (most here are married), would she give a shorter guy a shot.
She said, "As far as height, if the gentleman was the person had God selected, his height would not be a deal breaker"
Now, forgive me if I may come off as irreverent, but had not asked he what God's stance is on height. I was asking because this is a personal question reflective on individual preference.
It kind of made me wonder if she's one of those types that uses God as a reason to get out of things they personally don't like or the put the onus on God when someone confronts them with a question they are uncomfortable asking.
I remember talking to a friend about a dilemma. They didn't offer feedback at all, and just say, "pray about it" and it wasn't like a crisis situation or anything which typically is more desirable of prayer, but something having to do with a pesky, minor situation.
I hear some people use God as an excuse to dump a person they simply had grown apart with.
It seems Christians use God as a great scapegoat to get out of answering questions vs those who can simply answer such questions themselves, yes?
Maybe "Scapegoat" isn't the word I'm looking for...but cop-out? Yes?