Is this out of line?

[Angeleyes7715]

Is it out of line to tell other women to put clothes on if you see them walking out In front of your SO wearing booty shorts with a tank top? Or bending down to pet your dog?

If I can't say anything is it petty to get a t-shirt that says put some clothes on h?

Last resort if both those are petty is it okay to put on a bikini top and prance around when I see their boyfriend's just to prove my point. Sure they won't like it just as much as I don't.

 

[TRVL ONE]

I would say if they aren't a Christian then invite them to church and get them saved first before you point this out to them.

 

[BioLeap]

Is it out of line to tell other women to put clothes on if you see them walking out In front of your SO wearing booty shorts with a tank top? Or bending down to pet your dog?

If I can't say anything is it petty to get a t-shirt that says put some clothes on h?

Last resort if both those are petty is it okay to put on a bikini top and prance around when I see their boyfriend's just to prove my point. Sure they won't like it just as much as I don't.

Eh, um, huh? Booty? Bikini's? Are we having a body image problem here?

 

[S.O.J.I.A.]

Does your SO have the wondering eye?

 

[RaymondG]

Do unto others what you would have done unto you. Do what you would desire others to do to you when you do or wear something they dont like......you will be founded, one day, wearing something other deem unfit.....and what you do to the people in question now.....will be done to you then......

So the answer is.......it is all up to you....there is no correct or wrong way to respond to them. You choose how you desire to be treated by how you treat others......and God doesnt mind giving you anything you ask for.

 

[topher694]

Is it out of line to tell other women to put clothes on if you see them walking out In front of your SO wearing booty shorts with a tank top? Or bending down to pet your dog?

If I can't say anything is it petty to get a t-shirt that says put some clothes on h?

Last resort if both those are petty is it okay to put on a bikini top and prance around when I see their boyfriend's just to prove my point. Sure they won't like it just as much as I don't.

Yes it is out of line, and is not consistent with 1 Cor 13, walking in love... Unless you have authority and permission to speak into their lives, which it doesn't sound like you have from your post. Additionally, all this will do is cause you grief. Best thing to do in this situation is to just continually be a positive example.

 

[Angeleyes7715]

Eh, um, huh? Booty? Bikini's? Are we having a body image problem here?

I don't have a body image problem I have a problem with another girl dressing like a S infront of my SO. I really don't care about treating them kind I care about letting them know it's not okay to advertise to someone who's taken. And yeah that's how I take it you dress half naked you're advertising. sorry Hun but I'm pregnant rn so body image isn't a thing for me. Most pregnant women look pregnant no matter what we so no I don't care about my body image rn.

 

[Angeleyes7715]

Does your SO have the wondering eye?

No but he's obviously not blind he doesn't need any help from an S that feels the need to get attention from everyone elses SO.

 

[Angeleyes7715]

No but he's obviously not blind he doesn't need any help from an S that feels the need to get attention from everyone elses SO. He usually keeps his eyes away from girls who dress revealing and he has to purposely walk and look the other way or look down because there are so many women that don't care if they are exposing themselves. It's inconsiderate. Why don't some of you preach that do unto others stuff to them
I'm sure they wouldn't like it if another woman walked around in booty shorts Infront of theirs.

I don't feel like I'm wrong to be angry. A woman has to really go out of her way and look for guys in order to cheat a man only has to step outside of his house cause literally every woman is a feminist prostitute exhibitionist nowadays.

 

[Angeleyes7715]

Yes it is out of line, and is not consistent with 1 Cor 13, walking in love... Unless you have authority and permission to speak into their lives, which it doesn't sound like you have from your post. Additionally, all this will do is cause you grief. Best thing to do in this situation is to just continually be a positive example.

What about them they aren't walking in love trying to be Jezebel

 

[Lost4words]

I think you need to avert your eyes and concentrate on other things. If your other half loves you, he would not be bothered by them. Just ignore them.

 

[topher694]

What about them they aren't walking in love trying to be Jezebel

So does doing the right thing depend on someone else doing it first? Is wrong behavior an excuse for wrong behavior?

Do what you need to to maintain healthy boundries and to protect yourself, but do it in a way that is respectful regardless of other people's behavior.

 

[Angeleyes7715]

So does doing the right thing depend on someone else doing it first? Is wrong behavior an excuse for wrong behavior?

Do what you need to to maintain healthy boundries and to protect yourself, but do it in a way that is respectful regardless of other people's behavior.

Okay, it's easier to accept the last two comments I got vs the others that just got on my nerves.

 

[topher694]

Okay, it's easier to accept the last two comments I got vs the others that just got on my nerves.

I get it, it is all of our instinct to respond in the same manner as we have been treated, but you don't defeat Jezebel by using her tactics against her. That's a losing battle. We win by overcoming our desire for retaliation, and we are MORE than overcomers in Christ!

 

[S.O.J.I.A.]

No but he's obviously not blind he doesn't need any help from an S that feels the need to get attention from everyone elses SO.

if he's shown himself to be faithful despite all this than what's the problem? are they hitting on him?

 

[Angeleyes7715]

if he's shown himself to be faithful despite all this than what's the problem? are they hitting on him?

No but I take it as another woman physically trying to show me up in front of my SO. To me it's the equivalent of a bridesmaid trying to outdo the bride at a wedding. You can tell when someone went out of the way to get attention. Sorry but women have egos too and it's all about needing to be better or gain more attention than other women. Other women lie and say oh I dress this way for me I'll be honest women dress for attention and to be told they are beautiful and yes to feel attractive. What I'm saying to another female is your not allowed to try to look hot Infront of what's mine sorry but no way you are outdoing me sit down.
I like to be the most important thing to my boyfriend and I'll be the first to say I'm not kind when it comes to attention. I would sooner scratch another woman's eyes out than share my attention.

Not sure if that explains my mindset, but yeah I agree with the other person it's a losing battle to try to compete and I should just ignore it and not get mad.

 

[Angeleyes7715]

No but I take it as another woman physically trying to show me up in front of my SO. To me it's the equivalent of a bridesmaid trying to outdo the bride at a wedding. You can tell when someone went out of the way to get attention. Sorry but women have egos too and it's all about needing to be better or gain more attention than other women. Other women lie and say oh I dress this way for me I'll be honest women dress for attention and to be told they are beautiful and yes to feel attractive. What I'm saying to another female is your not allowed to try to look hot Infront of what's mine sorry but no way you are outdoing me sit down.
I like to be the most important thing to my boyfriend and I'll be the first to say I'm not kind when it comes to attention. I would sooner scratch another woman's eyes out than share my attention.

Not sure if that explains my mindset, but yeah I agree with the other person it's a losing battle to try to compete and I should just ignore it and not get mad.

Female alpha dog syndrome lol long story short

 

[Coady]

Angeleyes7715,
You are right to be upset. A check on the concordance for jealousy will show that. I don't think it would be right if you WEREN'T feeling that way. As for how to respond, I pray God gives you direction.

 

[Daniel C]

Is it out of line to tell other women to put clothes on if you see them walking out In front of your SO wearing booty shorts with a tank top? Or bending down to pet your dog?

If I can't say anything is it petty to get a t-shirt that says put some clothes on h?

Last resort if both those are petty is it okay to put on a bikini top and prance around when I see their boyfriend's just to prove my point. Sure they won't like it just as much as I don't.

Dressing modestly is Biblical, so supporting it is correct.

Approaching random people about their attire will probably only lead to confrontation which should be avoided if possible.

You mentioned if a woman pets your Dog and could be badly dressed. Well I would say if someone has approached you to pet your Dog it's fair game to engage in conversation and talk about their attire,as the person has made the first move. If you don't want to talk with someone, they shouldn't engage to start with.

As a sidenote, I have heard it said not all countries find it socially acceptable to approach and pet another persons Dog. In Germany this is considered rude.

 

[S.O.J.I.A.]

Female alpha dog syndrome lol long story short

if these chics aren't trying to hit on your guy and your guy isn't trying to hit on them than this really seems like severe insecurity on your part.