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Does lust in one form or another ever stop hounding us when we are celibate? Any sure way of getting rid of it short of losing celibacy?
You are right, I phrased it wrong.you have made a critical error in assuming leaving celibacy removes lust.... it only increases its appetite. God gave us strong drives and it is natural to burn with desire. The key is for you to look at any woman as a possible mate and instead of dating when you find yourself interested you begin a courting process. My nephew is now engaged at 29 and found a good young lady and went to her dad and asked permission to court her. The father talked to the daughter and she was inclined to get to know my nephew. The started to talk and she knew his intention was to seek a wife and not a girlfriend. They liked each other and started counseling together and seeking advice from older married couples. They are now engaged and will be married within a year of the start of the courting process. If you set goals in your life and the top one is to follow the LORD and he gives you the desire for a spouse then you should be preparing your character to be the best husband you can. If you struggle with lust you need to recognize that that is not going to bring you lifelong benefits. That real love is much deeper. If you find a wife you find a good thing. So now start praying for a mate and perparing your heart to be a good man for whoever you find.
Thank you for the prayer.
you have made a critical error in assuming leaving celibacy removes lust.
Does lust in one form or another ever stop hounding us when we are celibate? Any sure way of getting rid of it short of losing celibacy?
Thank you for the prayer.
I disagree with you though, we do not stop sinning when we receive the holy spirit we just don't practice sinning.
Thank you for your words. This is the way I feel. Sometimes I get lustful thoughts and I fight them but I would like never to have them. I don't dwell because I know it is wrong. I do ask God to help me with this daily. I am looking forward to when I never have them again. I am thankful that I am not the only one that has this problem.(Sorry, sounds like I am wishing it on others)I saw no error at all, just a fair question.
ilovejcsog, I think most of us struggle with that most if not all our lives. It's all about keeping our mind in the right place, and what has worked best for me is to just not think about it. Cut the thought out of your mind as soon as you have it, and don't dwell on it beyond that.
In the end it's actually easy to stop, the tough part is wanting to bad enough and if we do we can get it pretty well under control most of the time. Some will do better than others, just get rid of the temptations and when we can't do that, as I said, just don't let our thoughts get away from us.
We can also ask God for help, and ths part of the lords prayer comes to mind here..."Lead us not into temptation/deliver us from evil."
Very well put!In my experience, lust is an ever present enemy to be combatted.
It is part of the flesh. It could also be an indication that you may not be called to celibacy seeing that Paul said that it is better to marry than to burn. I'm not trying to influence your choice, but to encourage you to seek the Lord to see if you might need to hear from Him about it.Does lust in one form or another ever stop hounding us when we are celibate? Any sure way of getting rid of it short of losing celibacy?
It is part of the flesh. It could also be an indication that you may not be called to celibacy seeing that Paul said that it is better to marry than to burn. I'm not trying to influence your choice, but to encourage you to seek the Lord to see if you might need to hear from Him about it.
Thank you for your advice. I have no choice in the matter. I am an unwilling celibate, lol.It is part of the flesh. It could also be an indication that you may not be called to celibacy seeing that Paul said that it is better to marry than to burn. I'm not trying to influence your choice, but to encourage you to seek the Lord to see if you might need to hear from Him about it.
When we are converted to Christ, we don't change from who we are. We are still sinners until the day we die. It is that God through the redemptive work of Christ on the cross, declares us "not guilty" and gives us a free pardon. Then we get filled with the Holy Spirit to work sanctification in us. We will always see ourselves as:"I can testify that I don't sin very often."
This a contradiction to what you said originally. I am sure you have put guilt on people who read your words that don't know better. Your original post: "A person will stop sinning when they possess the Holy Spirit."
"What do you think was meant when it was discussed that our Sin Nature is removed, or, cut out?'"
We no longer practice sin.
There are two major views on celibacy.Does lust in one form or another ever stop hounding us when we are celibate?
Not all libido is lust. Libido is a valid, God-given appetite. Lust happens when we go outside of proper channels to satisfy our libido.Lust can be extremely hard to fight. I know from experience.
you have made a critical error in assuming leaving celibacy removes lust.... it only increases its appetite.
I hope people will talk of their experiences in fighting lust, what works for them.
Does lust in one form or another ever stop hounding us when we are celibate? Any sure way of getting rid of it short of losing celibacy?