- Mar 26, 2019
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When you volunteer in a church office and a friend expects you to help her out more because she is "a friend," what do you do? If she is not asking me to violate any rule (such as move her email up on the priority list), but wanting me to use my personal connection with the pastor and the staff to her advantage, what do I say?
What I mean is, she knows that if I tell the pastor or the staff that she is my friend, they are likely to make accommodations or go the extra mile in helping her. I just don't think that's fair, even when she makes it sound non-demanding, like, "Whenever you have time" to talk to them.
What I mean is, she knows that if I tell the pastor or the staff that she is my friend, they are likely to make accommodations or go the extra mile in helping her. I just don't think that's fair, even when she makes it sound non-demanding, like, "Whenever you have time" to talk to them.