Hello everyone as the title says, my marriage is in danger.
So here goes...
I have been married for 3 years and have been with my wife for 6 years, I am 28 and she's 26, and we have 2 little girls, 7 and 2 years old. After we got married we stayed at my wife's aunts house for a while maybe over a year. It was something I disliked and was eager to move out, as was she. We dicided to move from NY to NC. We had a plan...I saved up for the apartment while she saved up for the car. Everything went fine, even found a place shortly after planning.
Finally got the apartment but unfortunately we had money stolen, and plans changed! ( stolen after the down payment was made so about a month before the move in date, so we was able to make changes with the plans before them actual move in date) The money that was stolen was an advance for rent so we can get my daughters situated with school and babysitter. So there for she stayed with the kids and worked in New york while I worked out here in North Carolina. We agreed at one point to wait til we had the money to continue with the original plan. Tranfering my daughters schools, wife and kids move in ect. ect.
Now I'm 4 months in and she changes the plan to wait til my daughter finished school in NY to move (she wasn't comfortable with the public school and wanted her in a charter school). We disagree there because I belive she can finish school in NC(even if she has to do public til the end of the school year then go to a charter). I want my family together.
She disagrees. So I wait. It wasn't til her own mother said to her that we should be together and that we need to, and to tranfer my daughter school. Then she agrees. We pick a date. first week of May. 1 month before schools out. She gets accepted into a charter school so now is just the money holding us back. It took my wife 4 months to get the information that we needed to tranfer my daughter. Wasn't until I made the calls myself.(we wanted to make sure everything would be a green light, or if she would have to get left back in 1st grade). The charter school just need her report card and I called her current school and they said she can get one in may and that she will move on. But a month later my wife changes it back to the end of the school year again.
It's frustrating me because she keeps changing the d
So here goes...
I have been married for 3 years and have been with my wife for 6 years, I am 28 and she's 26, and we have 2 little girls, 7 and 2 years old. After we got married we stayed at my wife's aunts house for a while maybe over a year. It was something I disliked and was eager to move out, as was she. We dicided to move from NY to NC. We had a plan...I saved up for the apartment while she saved up for the car. Everything went fine, even found a place shortly after planning.
Finally got the apartment but unfortunately we had money stolen, and plans changed! ( stolen after the down payment was made so about a month before the move in date, so we was able to make changes with the plans before them actual move in date) The money that was stolen was an advance for rent so we can get my daughters situated with school and babysitter. So there for she stayed with the kids and worked in New york while I worked out here in North Carolina. We agreed at one point to wait til we had the money to continue with the original plan. Tranfering my daughters schools, wife and kids move in ect. ect.
Now I'm 4 months in and she changes the plan to wait til my daughter finished school in NY to move (she wasn't comfortable with the public school and wanted her in a charter school). We disagree there because I belive she can finish school in NC(even if she has to do public til the end of the school year then go to a charter). I want my family together.
She disagrees. So I wait. It wasn't til her own mother said to her that we should be together and that we need to, and to tranfer my daughter school. Then she agrees. We pick a date. first week of May. 1 month before schools out. She gets accepted into a charter school so now is just the money holding us back. It took my wife 4 months to get the information that we needed to tranfer my daughter. Wasn't until I made the calls myself.(we wanted to make sure everything would be a green light, or if she would have to get left back in 1st grade). The charter school just need her report card and I called her current school and they said she can get one in may and that she will move on. But a month later my wife changes it back to the end of the school year again.
It's frustrating me because she keeps changing the d