RickardoHolmes
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I too see nothing wrong with attending various churches. I even attend classes and meditations at a Buddhist temple, in addition to weekly Masses on Wednesdays at noon at the Episcopal church
I embraced the idea of being involved in multiple churches decades ago. It works well for me, but it may not be right for everyone.
The point is, you have to make her feel welcomed and loved. If she knows you want her there and that you value her time and attendance then she will keep contributing her talents and you will ALL grow together.
I remember though the great Quote from Groucho Marx
"I would not want to be part of any club that would have me as a member"
There is some hidden truth therein....comical though the intent may be.
I think of it also as dating. Although I am married now, I shopped aorund until I found the right lady. If the right church ever came along , then I might consider being part of it only, but since that has never yet happened nor do I think it likely ever will, then there is nothing wrong with pitching in at a few different congregations and helping out as I can afford to.
I embraced the idea of being involved in multiple churches decades ago. It works well for me, but it may not be right for everyone.
The point is, you have to make her feel welcomed and loved. If she knows you want her there and that you value her time and attendance then she will keep contributing her talents and you will ALL grow together.
I remember though the great Quote from Groucho Marx
"I would not want to be part of any club that would have me as a member"
There is some hidden truth therein....comical though the intent may be.
I think of it also as dating. Although I am married now, I shopped aorund until I found the right lady. If the right church ever came along , then I might consider being part of it only, but since that has never yet happened nor do I think it likely ever will, then there is nothing wrong with pitching in at a few different congregations and helping out as I can afford to.
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