Sorry. I am totally unqualified to judge your teachings, intentions, and fruit. I wish I could help you out, but I can not see your heart.
We judge others. What Jesus taught was not to do so hypocritically. If we don't judge at all then we become unable to know right from wrong, because we aren't using discernment.
When Jesus was talking in Matthew 7:1-5 he was teaching us that we can't judge hypocritically. This discourse begins with judge not lest ye be judged for with whatever measure ye mete it will be measured unto you. . but interestingly it ends with these words:
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and then you will see clearly to remove the speck from your brother's eye."
the whole point is being able to discern the issue correctly which can't be done properly when we are steeped in sin ourselves.
But helping our brother remove the speck in his eye is something positive.
We see in Hebrews:
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And let us consider how to stir up one another to love and good works"
If we don't know or can't see what sin and evil is, how can we spur one another on to good works?
You cant know what love is unless you have seen hate, you cannot recognise what good is unless you have seen evil.
We understand through contrast. If murder is a simple choice that a person can make, then there is no good because there is nothing under the sun which is evil.
2 Timothy 2:15
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Do your best to present yourself to God as one approved, a worker who has no need to be ashamed, rightly handling the word of truth."
We are responsible for understanding the Word of God correctly, as well as responsible for spreading it truthfully and not misrepresenting that Word ...
We have to stand before God on judgment day. Standing around saying the Bible teaches Hitler to be righteous before God, or the woman who murders her child is righteous in that act (both lies), is one of those things that will require an accounting for.
God forgives, but scripture reminds us:
What shall we say, then? Shall we go on sinning so that grace may increase? By no means!