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I have been talking to this guy on Eharmony,we had been texting each other,the last time we talked,we talked on facetime,and now since we talked on facetime,he has not answered my texts or texted me since then,do you think he doesn't like me anymore?
 

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I have been talking to this guy on Eharmony,we had been texting each other,the last time we talked,we talked on facetime,and now since we talked on facetime,he has not answered my texts or texted me since then,do you think he doesn't like me anymore?

I would kindly say quite possibly. Perhaps he simply was not attracted to you after talking in a more personal way. Though it would be courteous of him to simply say that.
 
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I would kindly say quite possibly. Perhaps he simply was not attracted to you after talking in a more personal way. Though it would be courteous of him to simply say that.
I would kindly say quite possibly. Perhaps he simply was not attracted to you after talking in a more personal way. Though it would be courteous of him to simply say that.
yes it would be
 
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I have been talking to this guy on Eharmony,we had been texting each other,the last time we talked,we talked on facetime,and now since we talked on facetime,he has not answered my texts or texted me since then,do you think he doesn't like me anymore?

Be careful out there.
He may be a gamer?
Or married?
Or we just never know?
M-Bob
 
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I have been talking to this guy on Eharmony,we had been texting each other,the last time we talked,we talked on facetime,and now since we talked on facetime,he has not answered my texts or texted me since then,do you think he doesn't like me anymore?

Think seriously about internet.... could be he was arrested as a perp in an internet sting by the authorities.
 
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Be careful out there.
He may be a gamer?
Or married?
Or we just never know?
M-Bob

What do you mean by gamer? :sorry: I enjoy the occasional Video game myself- or tabletop. Quite fun.
 
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yes it would be
Sounds like you dodged a bullet then! There's always someone nicer out there. My mom dated on eharmony. She is now married to someone she met on there (though the marriage is iffy).
 
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Sounds like you dodged a bullet then! There's always someone nicer out there. My mom dated on eharmony. She is now married to someone she met on there (though the marriage is iffy).
Sounds like you dodged a bullet then! There's always someone nicer out there. My mom dated on eharmony. She is now married to someone she met on there (though the marriage is iffy).
very true
 
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I would kindly say quite possibly. Perhaps he simply was not attracted to you after talking in a more personal way. Though it would be courteous of him to simply say that.
the least he could have told me was that he was not interested in me anymore.
 
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I have been talking to this guy on Eharmony,we had been texting each other,the last time we talked,we talked on facetime,and now since we talked on facetime,he has not answered my texts or texted me since then,do you think he doesn't like me anymore?
How many times did he text you?
 
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From the little bit of what I know from your OP and only my opinion, I would say he is rude for not responding to your texts .
If he isn't interested he could just politely communicate this to you so you do not have to question as to why.
Please be careful on any dating site because there are a lot of predators out there that use those sites as platforms to deceive.
My prayer for you (and has been) is that you meet a Godly gentleman with a Christ centered life.
 
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the least he could have told me was that he was not interested in me anymore.

Well there are two possibilities, he is scared of confrontation, or he didn't want to explain why because he thought it would be less painful.

Oh and there's that third possibility that he just didn't care and couldn't be bothered to.


Maybe he's also just busy. Probably the less likely one but it is possible.
 
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From the little bit of what I know from your OP and only my opinion, I would say he is rude for not responding to your texts .
If he isn't interested he could just politely communicate this to you so you do not have to question as to why.
Please be careful on any dating site because there are a lot of predators out there that use those sites as platforms to deceive.
My prayer for you (and has been) is that you meet a Godly gentleman with a Christ centered life.
thank you I agree,I actually like this guy at church
 
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Either way don't let it get you down. In my experience its much harder to build a distance relationship over the internet. It's just too easy to leave someone you've never met in person because you wont run into them again. Also it's much harder to understand a person's personality through text. I've met people who ended up being completely different even over the phone then over text.

There was a girl I talked to for the longest time who I thought was a spoiled brat who I very much was not that attracted to other than physically. When we finally talked over the phone after years of knowing each other, it turned out she was very reasonable and likable- and though we do not date because of various reasons, she is one of my most valued friends.

Just don't give up! Relationships are nice but can never replace personal strength and your relationship with God. Best of luck <3
 
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Either way don't let it get you down. In my experience its much harder to build a distance relationship over the internet. It's just too easy to leave someone you've never met in person because you wont run into them again. Also it's much harder to understand a person's personality through text. I've met people who ended up being completely different even over the phone then over text.

There was a girl I talked to for the longest time who I thought was a spoiled brat who I very much was not that attracted to other than physically. When we finally talked over the phone after years of knowing each other, it turned out she was very reasonable and likable- and though we do not date because of various reasons, she is one of my most valued friends.

Just don't give up! Relationships are nice but can never replace personal strength and your relationship with God. Best of luck <3
<3 thank you :)
 
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not very many were were texting each other last weekend,then Tuesday was the last time we talked,which was on video chat.
He might be employed to text and talk to folk, to keep them on the site. If you log on to the site and no one talks to you, then you might go elsewhere.
 
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