Today’s Devotional | September 24 | JOB 2:1-10 | Job’s Wife
Memory Verse
But he said unto her, Thou speakest as one of the foolish women speaketh. What? shall we receive good at the hand of God, and shall we not receive evil? In all this did not Job sin with his lips (Job 2:10).
Job’s wife may be the most maligned woman in the Bible.
It’s not fair.
What she said was bad, but one must remember when she said it. Her children had just lost their lives. She and her husband had lost all their property. And now the man she loved had lost his health. Under such conditions many would have said foolish things. Depression often causes words to drop from our lips that would never be uttered under normal circumstances.
We must be careful not to judge the man by the moment. Or the woman.
Job understood his wife’s state of mind and spoke to her tenderly. He didn’t call her a fool. He knew her too well for that…and loved her. He simply told her that she was talking like one of the foolish women. He reminded her that she was out of character. This was not like her. There is not a touch of bitterness in his word of correction. This patient and good man knew the load of grief being carried by his deprived wife and he had compassion on her.
And now a good word for Mrs. Job. It is said that whenever a man reaches the top a good woman is holding the ladder. And Job had become a prosperous and respected man. Mrs. Job had evidently been a loyal and helpful companion through the years, a good homemaker and mother. She doesn’t deserve the criticism heaped on her for her single lapse of judgment during a time of deep depression.
To attack others when they are down is to act like the foolish ones. “Husbands, love your wives” (Ephesians 5:25).
Job was the one being targeted here, with sores from head to foot, with WORMS crawling all in them, and even in his dreams, tormented. Satan was allowed, by God, to do ev'ry thing under the sun to Job BUT kill him. In other words, (to attempt to "drive" Job to "curse God and die") and what occurred is that Job WAS "driven" to the point that he wanted to die for relief from it all. (BUT he did NOT "curse" God). And THEN his wife comes to him, as he's sitting in a dung/ash heap, and tells him to just "curse his God already, and die".
At his absolute lowest, and most painful, she kicks him in the teeth and tells him, in essence, to "drop dead". This, in spite of the fact that she herself testified that he was a man of integrity. She told him, in essence, to kick his integrity to the curb, curse God, and die. She was ANGRY that Job, her husband
WAS a man of integrity. This alone speaks of her heart condition, and her contempt for her Godly husband's character and the God Who said this about Job. She
DESPISED this about Job:
"There was a man in the land of Uz, whose name was Job; and that man was perfect and upright, and one that feared God, and eschewed evil." ~Job 1:1
HE was the one targeted, and suffering inexplicably in all kinds of ways, too many to mention.
HE lost his children tragically, boom boom boom one after the other as well.
I assume that Mrs. Job was not "living" on that ash heap
WITH Job, didn't have oozing, putrid sores head to foot with worms crawling all in them, and being spit at while sitting on an ash heap, or have "friends" in her face, taunting, condemning, and accusing her of all kinds of monstrosities and evil, etc.. No, she came to "taunt" him, and in essence curse him and his God (which i suspect she never believed in in the first place) and she was venting her anger at Job and his God, telling him to curse his God and to just die already. (Sound familiar?)
She was acting as an agent of Satan, just like his "friends" were.
It's about her "heart" and the condition of her heart.
That's why Satan was able to use her.
It is said that whenever a man reaches the top a good woman is holding the ladder. And Job had become a prosperous and respected man.
Job was blessed because of GOD. Not a wife who kicked Job in the teeth at his lowest.
Job was blessed by God because of how God HIMSELF described Job:
"There was a man in the land of Uz, whose name was Job; and that man was perfect and upright, and one that feared God, and eschewed evil." ~Job 1:1
And it was
BECAUSE God blessed Job in this manner, that there was a conversation between God and Satan
ABOUT Job in the first place.
It had
NOTHING to do with Job's wife, who cursed her husband at his absolute lowest, and
DESPISED his integrity, and who repeated the very words of Satan to "curse God and die" and was, and remains, "nameless", as she fades away into "obscurity".
Just like Lot's wife.
But wait a minute, Lot's wife didn't fade away into obscurity. That's right, she became memorialized, so to speak.
She became a pillar o' salt.