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I guess that's why it bothers me. Money comes hard to me. But maybe God will restore it to me if I let it go. I don't know. What do you do when in need of urgent wisdom? I've prayed but can't see clear so I came on here.

Money will come and go, there will be hard times and easy times in your life.

But to be real honest let God take care of you, stop putting matters like this into your own hands.

If you just love them any how, even if they are ripping you off, then your rewards will be great.

But to hate any one over something you can make your self is well, pointless.

Yes there evil in there ways, but there also human and we all are all evil every once in a while.

If you need God to bless you in your life then I suggest to worship God and not money.

He is God, the creator of all things, even your support.
 
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Well, Yahweh BLESSES the unjust, and the just,
the unrighteous, and the righteous.

It did not look "fair" nor "right" nor "good" to see Jesus go to the crucifixion..... bloody, messy, unjust...


but He did willingly and with joy set before Him in the future....

He obeyed the Father in all things..... (a key)...

So we must, certainly, learn to hear.... sheer grace, to hear the Good Shepherd Jesus.
and hearing His Word, His Voice, FOLLOW HIM ....
then
He Gives Peace that no man can take away.
So what decision would you make? How can I know what decision is right?
 
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Money will come and go, there will be hard times and easy times in your life.

But to be real honest let God take care of you, stop putting matters like this into your own hands.

If you just love them any how, even if they are ripping you off, then your rewards will be great.

But to hate any one over something you can make your self is well, pointless.

Yes there evil in there ways, but there also human and we all are all evil every once in a while.

If you need God to bless you in your life then I suggest to worship God and not money.

He is God, the creator of all things, even your support.
As distasteful as it was I did pray for him and the Executrix today. But it WAS distasteful. I've had to work hard in my life for anything I ever got. I think that money the lying lawyer would be taking I could give to a useful purpose. I turns my stomach to be honest to think that liar would get a cent of mine. So you would let it go and let him have it without fighting?
 
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So what decision would you make? How can I know what decision is right?
Remember what Jesus said to someone who asked Him something similar:

What business is that of mine,
or
That is none of my business....

"Do what the Father tells you to do" This is best and simple.
 
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Ephesians 5 English Standard Version (ESV)
Walk in Love

5 Therefore be imitators of God, as beloved children. 2 And walk in love, as Christ loved us and gave himself up for us, a fragrant offering and sacrifice to God.

4 Let there be no filthiness nor foolish talk nor crude joking, which are out of place, but instead let there be thanksgiving. 6 Let no one deceive you with empty words, for because of these things the wrath of God comes upon the sons of disobedience. 7 Therefore do not become partners with them;
8 for at one time you were darkness, but now you are light in the Lord. Walk as children of light 9 (for the fruit of light is found in all that is good and right and true), 10 and try to discern what is pleasing to the Lord. 11 Take no part in the unfruitful works of darkness, but instead expose them. 12 For it is shameful even to speak of the things that they do in secret.
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1 Corinthians 5:13 - Bible Gateway
1 Corinthians 5:13 - Bible Gateway
But you yourselves must deal with this man and put him out of your church. MSG. I wrote you in ... judge those outside. “Purge the evil person from your midst.”.
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Philippians 4 Worldwide English (New Testament) (WE)
... ... ... keep on standing firm and strong in the Lord. ... ... ..
4 Always be glad for what the Lord has done, I will say it again, be glad.
5 Let everyone know that you think kindly of others before yourselves.

The Lord is near.

6 Do not worry about anything. Talk to God about everything. Thank him for what you have. Ask him for what you need.

7.................................. Then
God will give you peace,

a peace which is too wonderful to understand.

That peace will keep your hearts and minds safe as you trust in Christ Jesus.
I have sought Him but have no inner peace. I have unrest and don't know why. It can be a spiritual attack because the lawyer is a tool of the devil. I prayed a warfare prayer but I still feel unrest. So now don't know what to do. I would appreciate sincerely your prayers. I'm sure everyone has encountered times when your soul is filled with unrest.
 
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So you would let it go and let him have it without fighting?
I cannot speak for your situation.

I have let go thousands and thousands more than that though, without even thinking otherwise. (to wicked men and businesses and fallen pastors)
(I had nothing left either - it was not as if it was a small sum -rather half a years wages in a good year -
but money has no hold on me (sheer grace, not my goodness , but God's Word at work for years before )
 
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I have sought Him but have no inner peace. I have unrest and don't know why. It can be a spiritual attack because the lawyer is a tool of the devil. I prayed a warfare prayer but I still feel unrest. So now don't know what to do. I would appreciate sincerely your prayers. I'm sure everyone has encountered times when your soul is filled with unrest.
The inner peace, that God Gives, is essential.

This is far far far more urgent than any amount of money.

Prayers with Jesus to the Father before His Throne are being offered , and the Father always answers.
 
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Remember what Jesus said to someone who asked Him something similar:

What business is that of mine,
or
That is none of my business....

"Do what the Father tells you to do" This is best and simple.
No - I have to decide whether to roll the dice and try to allow the judge to decide to not allow the lawyer to get paid from the estate. The problem is she could turn against me this time and possibly take MORE out of my share to pay the lying lawyers court fees. He's filthy and tried to get money out of my share to pay his court fees even though he and the Executrix broke the law. The judge decided in my favor. My husband said to let it go now and not try to prevent him from getting paid but it grates on me because he put me through 7 grueling months of grief by threatening me and trying to trick me into signing and agreeing to the Executrix taking some of my money.

So this has to translate into definitive action and I don't know what decision to make. The judge could decide in my favor and not let him get any money but my husband said 'it's the lawyers club' - or she could give him even MORE of my money out of my share which is what the corrupt sleaze tried to do.

I hate giving in to him - it sickens me. But I don't want to lose either. Should I quit while I'm ahead or take it to the end?
 
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My husband said to let it go now and not try to prevent him from getting paid

I didn't notice before , but this totally takes all the pressure off of you, at least concerning the court dealings.
 
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As distasteful as it was I did pray for him and the Executrix today. But it WAS distasteful. I've had to work hard in my life for anything I ever got. I think that money the lying lawyer would be taking I could give to a useful purpose. I turns my stomach to be honest to think that liar would get a cent of mine. So you would let it go and let him have it without fighting?

Let me tell you , your not the only one who works hard for money, we all do.

I'm sure even the lawyer who took your money worked hard to steal it.

But he is a human being, who was created by God.

The money he took is paper that was created by man.

What is more important???

A human who God created or money that man created?

I find it strait out horrid how people love man made objects over god created humans.

Next time you think bad to him, do your self a favor and imagine he is a newly created baby just brought into the world who needed your money and you gave it to him because you are like God who cares more for his soul then your money.

I pray for you and them.
 
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The inner peace, that God Gives, is essential.

This is far far far more urgent than any amount of money.

Prayers with Jesus to the Father before His Throne are being offered , and the Father always answers.
The inner peace, that God Gives, is essential.

This is far far far more urgent than any amount of money.

Prayers with Jesus to the Father before His Throne are being offered , and the Father always answers.
I agree but I feel stirred up inside over it - my urge is to fight because I've had to fight for everything in my life but I don't want to lose to that liar. Do you think I should let it go and withdraw my complaint and let the sleaze ball think he won or should I let the complaint move forward?
 
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Let me tell you , your not the only one who works hard for money, we all do.

I'm sure even the lawyer who took your money worked hard to steal it.

But he is a human being, who was created by God.

The money he took is paper that was created by man.

What is more important???

A human who God created or money that man created?

I find it strait out horrid how people love man made objects over god created humans.

Next time you think bad to him, do your self a favor and imagine he is a newly created baby just brought into the world who needed your money and you gave it to him because you are like God who cares more for his soul then your money.

I pray for you and them.
Thanks for your prayers. But some people are children of the devil - I don't think we're to love them.
 
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Thanks for your prayers. But some people are children of the devil - I don't think we're to love them.

Why not? there created by God.

are you not a sinner?

have you not sinned?

If not then I will go my way and think no more about it.

So when you sin should God love you or just say

He is of the devil so I will not love him.
 
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The inner peace, that God Gives, is essential.

This is far far far more urgent than any amount of money.

Prayers with Jesus to the Father before His Throne are being offered , and the Father always answers.
Thanks - I want inner peace.
 
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Why not? there created by God.

are you not a sinner?

have you not sinned?

If not then I will go my way and think no more about it.

So when you sin should God love you or just say

He is of the devil so I will not love him.
Yes I am a sinner. Can you please pray that God will give me wisdom to see clearly what to do?
 
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I agree but I feel stirred up inside over it - my urge is to fight because I've had to fight for everything in my life
Peace, be still, as Jesus Says. The fight is not yours, and you were told to stop. Stop, therefore, and rest, be at peace. Give up your own desires, and repent if there is any grudging or murmurring or rebellion.
Do you think I should let it go and withdraw my complaint

My husband said to let it go now and not try to prevent him from getting paid

Obey and rest.
 
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When my father was alive he gave me money for medical expenses but never told me it had to be paid back. He named my sister Executrix and she never had a family and was causing trouble in mine so I told her to stop contacting my children. She immediately threatened to keep money my father left.

A year later I got an accounting in the mail deducting thousands out of my share. I refused to sign it and went for 7 long months of her lawyer breaking the law and threatening to take me to court and go for double that if I didn't sign. I fought through each time and finally was forced to file a complaint in court. The Executrix got a free car and others got years of free rent and I was put out at a young age.

I was concerned because that lawyer works for a firm that is well known. But when I went before the judge she turned out to be honest and decided in my favor. I filed another complaint that the lawyer not be allowed to collect from the estate due to the 7 months of harassing me and charging the estate for his "work" of harassing me.

I need wisdom quickly. I believe there is something fishy going on with someone who works in the court as they "misplaced" my complaint and then sent it back and said I filed it too late but I persisted and it's supposed to be heard. I don't know if I should quit while I'm ahead as I'm afraid the Judge may turn around and decide against me - although I don't think they can override a legal will.

The lawyer is a FILTHY LIAR and has all the attributes of satan - he's devious, sneaky, sly, and I hate dealing with him.

Can others give me their feedback? I would sincerely appreciate your prayers.
Given the example of Job with the behind the scenes he wasn't aware about. I would say fight for your integrity but don't blame God if it all turns south. 1 Peter 4:15
 
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Yes I am a sinner. Can you please pray that God will give me wisdom to see clearly what to do?

Do you want to know what God told me about you?

I prayed to him about your situation and he told me tell him this.

If you give your whole heart to God and his son and follow him and live your whole life for God .
Make him your whole life every day.

Then he will give you all things, more then the little money you would get in the first place.
He will make you rich compared to this man who took your money.

But you still need to forgive him and love him, prove you love him and prove you love your sister.
 
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