I here you. Since that is your thinking, I do need to ask you your thoughts on several Bible quotes.
Matt. 12:31-32 is of course the so called "unpardonable sin"..............
“Therefore I say to you,
every sin and blasphemy will be forgiven men, but the blasphemy
against the Spirit will not be forgiven men. Anyone who speaks a word against the Son of Man, it will be forgiven him; but whoever speaks against the Holy Spirit, it will not be forgiven him, either in this age or in the
age to come."
Does that indicate that some sin is worse than another by the words......"Every sin & blasphemy".
1 Corth. 6:18..........
"Flee from sexual immorality.
All other sins a person commits are outside the body, but whoever sins sexually, sins against their own body."
That seems to me to be saying sexual sins are different than "other" sins.
John 19:11............
"Jesus answered, “You would have no power over me if it were not given to you from above. Therefore the
one who handed me over to you is guilty of a greater sin.”
Does that validate your thinking or contradict it???
Matthew 7:3 ....................
“Why do you look at the speck of sawdust in your brother’s eye and pay no attention to the plank in your own eye?"
The idea that "all sins are equal in God's eyes" comes from the idea that any
one sin will lead to death. If we commit a single sin, we are as guilty (in God's eyes) as if we had committed the worst sin--regardless of which sin we committed.
It's based on the idea that God's holiness is so extreme, that even one transgression is greater than he can accept. This idea is supported with two key verses
James 2:10 ................
"For whoever keeps the whole law and yet stumbles at just one point is guilty of breaking all of it".
Romans 3:23 ............
"for all have sinned and fall short of the glory of God".
The argument goes, therefore, that if even the smallest sin prevents us from attaining the perfection that God calls us to seek, then that one single sin is as great as the worst sin.
We can reconcile these two seemingly opposing viewpoints: we can clearly see that some sins are greater than others, but that
any sin will prevent us from going to heaven without the saving grace and sacrifice of Jesus.
Essentially, any one sin is sufficient to keep us from God, but all sins are not the same.
Can one sin be worse than another sin, or are all sins equal?