Hello brother Jason, I will attempt to answer per request, hoping the answers I give line up with Scripture and historical Calvinism, that is in agreement with the many creeds and confessions of the Reformed faith and the majority of it's adherents, while recognizing the room for some variation of disagreement, and at the same time a consistency of agreement among adherents.
1. Do you believe that God forces some to be not saved against their will?
No, I do not, neither is there any need for coercion, sinners by very nature sin, it comes rather naturally.
2. Do you believe Jesus died for all people or just for the Elect or the saved?
I believe all Calvinists will agree that Jesus' substitutionary atonement applies exclusively to the elect in Christ. The logical conclusion for the non-elect, is the blood of Christ is not on those suffering the wrath of God's judgement. There are variations of answers to this question due to the magnitude of the atonement in accomplishing all that the Father intended. It can also be said that Christ died for all kinds of people, all types of people, meaning all races, ages, gender, throughout all of the history of mankind.
3. Did God directly create evil?
No, not directly, He did create the potential for it, all while knowing what the outcome would be and sovereignly allowing it. Some occurances we might consider “evil” such as a “natural disaster”, God is in control, has control over, is not beyond His ability to control.
4. Does God force regenerate (i.e. to be born again) the Elect before they make a free will choice to accept Christ?
No, and the question is framed without taking into account the historical Reformed order of salvation. The fact is, we are all dead in sins and trespasses and cannot please a Holy God before regeneration. God does not force, He regenerates His chosen people that He chose before the foundation of the world according to His wondrous mercy and grace, His choice His divine prerogative. To say God "forces" suggest He converts against a person's will, but the will not in Christ is already spiritually dead and set against God. He brings to life, that which was formerly dead. If that is forcing, then so be it, I will accept it, and be thankful for it.
5. Does God choose the saved or unsaved based upon what He knew they were going to do?
Romans Chapter 9 provides the answer, Also see Ephesians Chapter 2. The Biblical answer is no, God does not look through the corridors of time, hoping for volunteers. He say’s “follow me” and those that can hear, they do.
6. Once God saves somebody, is there no possible chance they can become unsaved?
No, God does not make mistakes, He does not provide salvation and leave it in the hands of sinners to foil His plans. On this note, it is entirely possible and more than possible, for people to partake in, have an exterior appearance of conversion but lack true inward conversion. Unfortunately most are self-deceived, indeed we need not look further than non-Christian religions to observe the widespread deception infecting the whole world.
7. Are God's Elect saved even while they abide in unrepentant sin sometimes?
Rather than answer the question, I will throw one back. Let’s take Christian Joe for example. He’s been saved and lived a godly life for most of his life. He’s not perfect but has always been the aim, to be Holy like Christ. He’s always strived to repent for every time he’s fallen short of the glory of God. One fateful morning on the way to Church service, another driver pulls out in front of him and without hardly thinking in a moment of anger he lets out a word I cannot use here. In the process of the accident, Joe loses his life almost instantly without time to repent or get it right with God. Since Christian Joe did not repent of that sin will he be thrown in the fire with the rest? Other examples that might come to mind have to do with elderly people who experience diseases effecting their mental faculties. It is difficult to envision a loving parent throwing out the baby with the dirty bath water.
As to the rest of the questions I will try to get back to them later when/as I am afforded time.