Endeavourer
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I'd still like to see what you read that suggested ANYTHING about him taking or sending out nude photos...because maybe I'm nuts...but I've re-read this entire thing like 5 times and cannot see what you're talking about - lol."
I really feel he was doing webcam video chatting. I also saw where he installed webcam software on his laptop around this time. When I went into the folder under Program Files to view the files, there were none there. So who installs a program and doesn't have files in that folder? I'll tell you who- somebody who deleted the program files.
No- I did not say there were naked pictures. Something I didn't say earlier that I had found is: I had found some deleted pics on his phone of selfies he took of himself in his car. Those look like the typical dating site profile type poses. If you go on any dating site (I went on them to look and see if he had any hidden profiles)- you will see about 50% of the men have that same pose. It's a selfie taken while in the driver seat of their car and it's a serious looking pose.
The deleted web cam files are not surprising given the facts you have related throughout this thread.
I don't know how I knew there were compromising images of her husband involved before Heather confirmed this information but somehow I did. Weird. I didn't realize it wasn't stated in her posts until you pointed it out.
With the information she has provided, I would have expected there to be some. However, I would never offer suggestions by assuming something as a hard fact not stated as such because I'm not God and I don't know. I did not do so intentionally here. Heather, don't interpret my comments as a prophecy or anything as I would never claim that. I do believe compromising images have been deleted based on Heather's findings above, and the context of the problem.
The selfie pics indicate some media interactions Heather is unaware of and in the context of this entire mess, it would raise questions. All of the indicators suggest there is much about this situation Heather does not know and that her husband, being aware of her resourcefulness, has become even more resourceful to hide.
If my husband took a selfie, I would find it out of character (he hates them), but it would not raise my suspicion whatsoever because there has been no other behavior with which to frame a suspicious context. In this context, it is quite different.
I read it all the first time, and went back and re-skimmed to see if I'd missed a chat line. I didn't see it and still don't. Please feel free to quote the post though.
I KNOW that I heard him thru the walls at night. I know his voice. He was either moaning out loud while [bless and do not curse][bless and do not curse][bless and do not curse][bless and do not curse][bless and do not curse][bless and do not curse][bless and do not curse][bless and do not curse][bless and do not curse][bless and do not curse][bless and do not curse] or he was talking to someone. The moaning would have only been one time for a couple of minutes while [bless and do not curse][bless and do not curse][bless and do not curse][bless and do not curse][bless and do not curse][bless and do not curse][bless and do not curse][bless and do not curse][bless and do not curse][bless and do not curse][bless and do not curse]. However, the sounds I heard were multiple times over the course of 30 min or so.
I do think he was probably doing video chats. I know his voice, and it definitely wasn't the inappropriate content video noise. It really sounded like him talking to someone. I honestly thought he was talking in his sleep because it would occur about 30 min or so after he told me goodnight and went to bed. It never occurred to me this might be what's going on until I found the inappropriate content/hooker text.
Remember, her husband initiated the separate rooms because Heather's sleeping bothered him. It's interesting her sleeping bothered him at the time when he wanted to do inappropriate content chats at night.
A spouse initiating separate beds is often be a canary in a coal mine - and I would assume it to be so until verifying otherwise if there are other circumstances involved as well that are not adding up.
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