does it seem only to me or also to others that you act like a saboteur walking along a thin line of the lie bordering directly/tightly on the truth?!
to tell the truth, i have no tradition to waste the time of anybody (including me) with nonsense - either we are helpful and not detrimental to each other in the true God, or let the cobbler stick to his last
i tell you again, the purpose of such an intervention as that of giving a testimony about God and faith in Him is to unload people from burdens, not to burden them
Isaiah 58:6 (AKJV) "Is not this the fast that I have chosen? to loose the bands of wickedness, to undo the heavy burdens, and to let the oppressed go free, and that you break every yoke?",
Matthew 23:4 (AKJV) "they bind heavy burdens and grievous to be borne, and lay them on men's shoulders; but they themselves will not move them with one of their fingers.",
Romans 15:1-4 (AKJV) "We then that are strong ought to bear the infirmities of the weak, and not to please ourselves. Let every one of us please his neighbor for his good to edification. For even Christ pleased not himself; but, as it is written, The reproaches of them that reproached you fell on me. For whatever things were written aforetime were written for our learning, that we through patience and comfort of the scriptures might have hope."
because if we say every person has necessarily to suffer all the time, then we don't unburden them, but on the contrary we burden them - and in fact, the true God Himself never causes evil/harm/suffering to any person/soul
Blessings