Well, there are different ways to overcome sin by God's Word and with the help of Jesus.
- Remove yourself from sinful environments (if possible) and or get rid of things that cause you to sin. In Genesis: Joseph had literally ran away from the temptation of sexual sin.
- Pray to God so as not to be tempted. It is part of the Lord’s prayer for you to pray so as not to be tempted into sin. God will guide and protect you if you are serious in praying for this. In fact, fasting will help you with this, as well.
- Obey God’s righteous ways. The more you love God and love others and obey His Word and stay in His Word and pray, the more you will not even have a chance to sin or do the wrong thing. But the more you walk in God's Word by the Spirit you will not fulfill the lusts of flesh.
- When you are tempted, quote Scripture. When Jesus was tempted by the devil, He quoted Scripture to defeat the devil. So when some specific sin is bothering you, find all the verses you can that are victory verses over that particular sin. A good general verse is, “The Lord is my shepherd, I shall not want.” You can say these verses to yourself silently under your breath (with nobody hearing).
- Ask for prayer from other God fearing Christians or Godly Christians to help you to overcome certain sins. The Scriptures say, bear ye one another's burdens and thus fulfill the Law of Christ. So seek true fellowship and ask for their help.
- Hide God’s Word in your heart. Memorize Scripture. David said he hid God’s Word within his heart so that he may not sin against the Lord.
- Confess of your sins. 1 John 1:9 says if we confess our sins he is faithful and just to forgive us our sins and to cleanse us from all unrighteousness.
I would also check out Pastor Alan Ballou's videos on YouTube on how to stop sinning, too.
Alan Ballou's YouTube Page.
First, sin is not what we think it is. God's Word defines what sin is. There are sins that lead unto death and sins that do not lead unto death (1 John 5:16-17). Death is the the Lake of Fire (Revelation 21:8).
Second, to answer your question: Yes, "not sinning" is the point of being right with God because it was sin that caused a separation between man and God in the first place. John says that Jesus was manifested to destroy the works of the devil (1 John 3:8). This would be the works of the devil within your life (i.e. sin). 1 John 3:10 says, "In this the children of God are manifest, and the children of the devil: whosoever doeth not righteousness is not of God, neither he that loveth not his brother." So I would say that "not sinning" is a very important point; Especially in light of what John says here.
"Whatsoever is not of faith is sin" (Romans 14:23).
"For the wages of sin is death;" (Romans 6:23).
"He that committeth sin is of the devil;" (1 John 3:8).
"For every one that doeth evil hateth the light, neither cometh to the light, lest his deeds should be reproved." (John 3:20).
Yes. There are unforgivable sins (Mark 3:29) (Revelation 13:8, Revelation 17:8). There are sins that lead to death if not repented of (such as murder, hate, adultery, coveting, theft, etc.). There are sins that do not lead unto death such as confessed sins (1 John 1:9, cf. 1 John 5:16-17), and or not being baptized (1 Peter 3:21).
You make it sound like, "Certain people have an excuse to sin because they appear to be victims of a particular sins." Is that what you are saying?
1 Corinthians 10:13 says,
"There hath no temptation taken you but such as is common to man: but God
is faithful, who will not suffer you to be tempted above that ye are able; but will with the temptation also make a way to escape, that ye may be able to bear
it."
What circumcistances? What circumstance makes it okay for somebody to sin?
Do you have a Scripture verse or passage in mind?
Yes. See Romans 14.
That is why narrow is the way that leads unto life and few be there that finds it.
Also, there is a way that seems right to a man, and the end thereof is death.
What Scripture verses or passages are you basing this conclusion on?
May the Lord's love shine upon you;
And may you have a good evening.
Sincerely,
~ Jason.