Know what i had to learn? And it was our precious Father's inexplicable grace, that i had to learn to stop beating myself up....sheeeesh, i had ENOUGH comin at me LOL! God had to stop me in me tracks and just give me the unction to "be still, just stop and be still". Hardest thing i ever had to learn....well maybe not...my self-loathing was pretty powerful. He was sooooo patient with me, through it all. I used to struggle with the same things....stress, work, not eating, hardly any sleep, repeat. Good grief, i think i had what i call "hurry sickness"...i mean i never slowed down. THEN He stepped in. I was getting ready for work and in a tizzy cuz i was panicked about being late, and it''s like He said to me "what are you doing?" and i said i'm getting ready for work...and He chuckled (not audibly....but in my spirit He did) and i stopped dead in my tracks, and had to chuckle because i realized that His silly daughter was runnin' around like a chicken with her head cut off LOL!
And dear sis....He's not mad at you for smoking. You keep your eyes on Him, smoking n' all, while He works this all out. And He will, in His timing. Praying that He calms you, quiets your heart, mind, and spirit, and that He imparts His peace and joy to you, and commences to healing you everywhere you hurt. He is a GOOD Father, and He LOVES you. Praying (((hug)))