It is not written ANYWHERE that a person has to marry.
1 Cor. 7:
8 I say therefore to the unmarried and widows, it is good for them if they abide even as I.
9 But if they cannot contain, let them marry: for it is better to marry than to burn.KJV
1 Cor. 7:
8 Now to the unmarried and the widows I say: It is good for them to stay unmarried, as I do. 9 But if they cannot control themselves, they should marry, for it is better to marry than to burn with passion.NIV
1 Cor. 7:
8 But to the unmarried people and to the widows, I declare that it is well (good, advantageous, expedient, and wholesome) for them to remain [single] even as I do.
9 But if they have not self-control (restraint of their passions), they should marry. For it is better to marry than to be aflame [with passion and tortured continually with ungratified desire].AMPC
I only ask because I was talking with a guy that I met on an online dating site. He started making such a big deal because I've never been married. He said it was not normal for a woman to be my age and never married. He said he was concerned and wanted to know why I was still single. He kept asking, "How can I measure up to what you're looking for if you haven't found it yet?"
Lybrah ... I wouldn't try to answer that question directly. I think it would be good to tell him to ask me out and lets see if we have any chemistry and you can figure out if I relate to you in a healthy way or not. Just as I'll be looking to see if you relate to me in a healthy way.
I ended up blocking him. He made me feel really bad.
He kept asking, "How can I measure up to what you're looking for if you haven't found it yet?"
I only ask because I was talking with a guy that I met on an online dating site. He started making such a big deal because I've never been married. He said it was not normal for a woman to be my age and never married. He said he was concerned and wanted to know why I was still single. He kept asking, "How can I measure up to what you're looking for if you haven't found it yet?"