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I heard a pastor speaking of Son's having to come to their Mother's and saying that they have "Sinned Against them..."
I have asked the Lord to send my apologies to my Mother in Heaven, she was an excellent mom, even a saint, I believe, but asked him to apologize for me to her for this:
http://www.christianforums.com/thre...-inquiring-a-lie.7969157/page-2#post-70243930
I asked the Lord to explain to her my reasons for not getting as emotionally close to her and she perhaps desired from her only Son... I was very short with her a lot, sometimes mean even, I was short, blunt, blatant, and very direct a lot, and she being rather sensitive, I know was hurt by it... But, I asked the Lord to explain my reasons, that I think are important... I didn't feel comfortable with the fact, that she desired to be or get more emotionally close, and more strongly emotionally connected, and more emotionally intimate with me, than she was or could be with her own husband...
I felt this was very wrong, and I was the way I was with her because of that... I asked the Lord to please explain it and help her understand...
Let me put it this way, If some people think that certain Son's owe their Mother's an apology, or that they "sinned against them" because of this, and should have allowed it, and not resisted so much... Then let me reverse it and apply it to Father's being more emotionally close, and more emotionally, intimately connected, and closer to their own daughter's and their daughter's to them, their Father's, than they are, to, or can be with their own wives...? Do you think that is wrong...? I do...
My own daughter, I myself, as her Father, had to fight this with as well, especially when she was young... I regret withholding my tender affections sometimes, both with my own Mother and my own daughter, but I did feel it was "for the best"...
I've heard some rather sick theories in Psychology, and was in an episode of the show "Big Bang Theory" that sometimes with a couple, their seeking, by sleeping with and having sex with, their... One, like the Female is seeking the emotional intimate connection, that they either had, or didn't have with their own Father, especially with females... And, Son's sometimes, with their Mother's... Sick, gross, I know...
I have troubles with emotion, and being deeply, emotionally intimate or deeply emotionally connected with anyone... I don't even know, and have wondered if I want that from any human being at all now, now having it to my full satisfaction with God now... And, It is much, much better than with any human being...
Emotional closeness, Emotional incest, Emotional cheating...?
Adultery and cheating often starts with emotional connections with other people...
Comments...?
God Bless!
I have asked the Lord to send my apologies to my Mother in Heaven, she was an excellent mom, even a saint, I believe, but asked him to apologize for me to her for this:
http://www.christianforums.com/thre...-inquiring-a-lie.7969157/page-2#post-70243930
I asked the Lord to explain to her my reasons for not getting as emotionally close to her and she perhaps desired from her only Son... I was very short with her a lot, sometimes mean even, I was short, blunt, blatant, and very direct a lot, and she being rather sensitive, I know was hurt by it... But, I asked the Lord to explain my reasons, that I think are important... I didn't feel comfortable with the fact, that she desired to be or get more emotionally close, and more strongly emotionally connected, and more emotionally intimate with me, than she was or could be with her own husband...
I felt this was very wrong, and I was the way I was with her because of that... I asked the Lord to please explain it and help her understand...
Let me put it this way, If some people think that certain Son's owe their Mother's an apology, or that they "sinned against them" because of this, and should have allowed it, and not resisted so much... Then let me reverse it and apply it to Father's being more emotionally close, and more emotionally, intimately connected, and closer to their own daughter's and their daughter's to them, their Father's, than they are, to, or can be with their own wives...? Do you think that is wrong...? I do...
My own daughter, I myself, as her Father, had to fight this with as well, especially when she was young... I regret withholding my tender affections sometimes, both with my own Mother and my own daughter, but I did feel it was "for the best"...
I've heard some rather sick theories in Psychology, and was in an episode of the show "Big Bang Theory" that sometimes with a couple, their seeking, by sleeping with and having sex with, their... One, like the Female is seeking the emotional intimate connection, that they either had, or didn't have with their own Father, especially with females... And, Son's sometimes, with their Mother's... Sick, gross, I know...
I have troubles with emotion, and being deeply, emotionally intimate or deeply emotionally connected with anyone... I don't even know, and have wondered if I want that from any human being at all now, now having it to my full satisfaction with God now... And, It is much, much better than with any human being...
Emotional closeness, Emotional incest, Emotional cheating...?
Adultery and cheating often starts with emotional connections with other people...
Comments...?
God Bless!