I've had communication with hundreds of believers in a forum setting. I've never actually experienced some many claims of "misrepresentation, character defamation, and flaming" to the tune that I've experienced communicating with you.
that is because of two things, 1. they have become convinced that preferential treatment will be given to certain people and 2. they have become convinced that standing up to bullies is not somehow Love. (biblical version). iN fact, you would be surprised at how many people speak to me about agreement on the bad behavior but don't know what to do about it. I'm just vocal about it rather than passive is all.
It would be a lot simpler if you abstain from "character assassination" complaints, and leave the expletives talk aside (aka... lols, the 15 year old son references, and geeshes, and wows) which are of zero use in this forum. Instead, why not focus on attempting to clearly and concisely present your ideas and concepts in a way that a person can understand and respond to.
clear and concise presentation of my ideas and concepts doesn't work with certain people....
If a person can't understand, or responds to something else it doesn't automatically mean that they are assassinating your character on purpose. It may be just that, they misunderstand what you are saying because your verbal semantics and understanding differed. Complaining about that doesn't solve the communication problem on your end.
which is why I am very patient with people until they prove they are intentionally reinventing and purposing to stir anger and contempt with false accusations and otherwise poor behaviors.
What continually amazes me in this particular case is that your test imply some unusual form of humility and patience that's an evidence for what you claim to believe, and there seems to be a lack of that in conversations with you. You are usually the first one to cry foul, and when you are shown that it's not the case, you move on without any due apology, "rinse and repeat".
let's look at the facts, shall we, remember this is just 3 sentences and I am pointing out misrepresentations in these three sentences alone. 1. the tests I suggest said nothing at all about humility and patience even though they come in much later they are harder to test for, thus not on the list as I repeatedly showed
So, let's see, you repeatedly were given a list without either of these and corrected dozens of time and you want us to believe that your misrepresentation is accidental? You know, like me saying there are some things on the list that are not able to be measured and must be dismissed as such and you and other posters add things that were never on the list and you were told weren't and pages and pages of corrections later you still misrepresent what I said as you are doing here....cool, do I get to do the same to you and then claim it is all your fault?
2. I have not said anything about what I believe. In fact, through this entire thread I have not only refused to speak about my personal beliefs but I have pointed out that to talk about my personal beliefs would be off topic. this insistence to remain on topic has offended both sides of the God issue. So, your second misrepresentation in these three sentences that I am talking about some personal belief has been scrutinized again, by both sides for pages and pages and pages and I even reported a couple of posters who relentlessly tried to goad me into getting off topic. So, why after that much discussion and clarification do you still not understand that when I say I am not nor will I talk about my personal beliefs only the process as per the OP question do you assume I mean the opposite? Is that a communication problem as well? Oh wait, asking if I am being clear is somehow inflammatory, sorry, let me change my question...how can I be more clear than saying, I am not nor will I talk about my personal beliefs because to do so would be off topic? Show me how to reword it so that clarification of communication is effective...thanks for the lessons.
3. "there seems to be a lack of communication with me" and yet, there are tons of posts that do nothing but explain to you and other posters what I mean when I say, "I am not nor will I talk about my personal beliefs because to do so would be off topic." I lack communication and patience with you according to this claim even though there are so many posts it would be cumbersome to show them all where I put great effort and patience in explaining to you all what I mean when I say, "I am NOT or will I talk about my personal beliefs on this thread because to do so would be off topic."
4. I have cried foul on arguments that didn't make any sense. On posters who demonstrated that they could not be civil in their posts, nothing else. To make this accusation anything else at all is false accusations of my character and since we are up to 4 misrepresentations already, I'm let everything in that sentence stay right there.
So, who is owed an apology? Hum, you have in three sentences misrepresented things that were painfully clear no less than 4 times. I previously took the time to show a post that had 5 blatant misrepresentations all of which were offensive to my actual position in no less or more than 2 sentences and no one apologized nor did I demand an apology because it has been painfully apparent that certain posters on this thread think they don't have to be civil in posting.
So, forgive me for saying this, but if your test is the 1st Corinthians type of love... I simply don't see the evidence of it demonstrable in how you conduct your conversation here. Hence, the irony is that your claim breaks down before we move on to anything else.
Since it isn't my claim it would only falsify the claim if I made the claim but remember, "I am NOT nor will I discuss my beliefs in this thread because to do so would be off topic of the OP."
But since that isn't clear yet and you haven't shown me how to make it clearer, I guess we are at am impasse in you not knowing what I mean when I say, "I am Not nor will I discuss my beliefs in this thread because to do so would be off topic." and I don't know how else to say it so that you can understand what I mean when I say it.