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I know exactly what you mean. Even some writing sites I've been on do much of this. The latest site I was on did that so much that no one was willing to create a plot/story with me that didn't have to do with sex. What constantly goes through my mind is "sex sells". It's really disheartening.


I hate to read something which makes me only think about the writers possible obsession of writing about sexual stuff. I think there are times when some erotic/sex stuff actually adds to the story, or is key element in it. But most of the times, it would work just as well or even better if it was left out completely.
 
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Yummy. Looks like I will be stealing Toro's idea of what to have on a sub and having the same thing! :satisfied:

Do you get any Mayo or anything on it?

Spicy mustard and pepperjack cheese. They toast it and when I get home I add potato chips in it. :D
 
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:ahem:

Oh, I know what it is, I've been using it for over a year. It's the best writing software! How can you not have tried it? lol

lol!! Oh, well! I haven't heard of it until recently in my search for the best writer's program/app. So, worth buying I take it?
 
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I hate to read something which makes me only think about the writers possible obsession of writing about sexual stuff. I think there are times when some erotic/sex stuff actually adds to the story, or is key element in it. But most of the times, it would work just as well or even better if it was left out completely.

That's a primary gripe of mine with so much fiction. It's often totally unnecessary, but a sex scene just HAS to be there at some point, it seems.

I wrote the story and dialogue for an entire mid-length RPG once, ... and guess what? No sex involved. Sure it's in our biology as Earthling creatures, but, that doesn't mean everything has to revolve around it.
 
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Happy Halloween.......

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lol!! Oh, well! I haven't heard of it until recently in my search for the best writer's program/app. So, worth buying I take it?
Yes, very much so. I got mine half off for completing a nanow challenge.

Who wants to tell a spooky story ? Maybe involving cfers
To the If CFSingles was thread we go...
 
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I'd love to make horror story in "if the singles was" - thread, but I don't want to kill CFers in a story.
One of my writing buddies once inserted our whole group into one of his nanows with the intention of killing them all off one by one. It was pretty hilarious.
 
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Yes, very much so. I got mine half off for completing a nanow challenge.

To the If CFSingles was thread we go...
What, really!? Wow, that's awesome!
 
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What, really!? Wow, that's awesome!
Yeah, they do it every year. If you can hold out until April when they do "campnanow" (a word goal challenge in April, but you set your own word goals if you're too busy for 50.000, and done in a group setting) I can invite you to our group and you can get a half off coupon that way.
 
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Yeah, they do it every year. If you can hold out until April when they do "campnanow" (a word goal challenge in April, but you set your own word goals if you're too busy for 50.000, and done in a group setting) I can invite you to our group and you can get a half off coupon that way.
Hmm... does it matter if I'm Canadian? I know with some it does matter.
 
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Hmm... does it matter if I'm Canadian? I know with some it does matter.
Nope, we have a Canadian in our group; and a German, and someone from NZ, and an Australian-- we're a varied group. lol. The coupon, I'm not entirely sure about though.
 
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Nope, we have a Canadian in our group; and a German, and someone from NZ, and an Australian-- we're a varied group. lol. The coupon, I'm not entirely sure about though.

:bigeye: Sugoi!
Hmm. Can I join the group and give this nanowrimo thing a try anyway, regardless of the coupon?
 
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:bigeye: Sugoi!
Hmm. Can I join the group and give this nanowrimo thing a try anyway, regardless of the coupon?
But of course, we'd be happy to have you. I asked my Canadian buddy if the coupon was good in Canada. He said he isn't sure either. lol
 
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