The idea of having a wife who directs lust for other men toward me isn't appealing, but the idea of having a wife who has been saving herself for her husband who wants to unleash the floodgates sounds fine to me.
And yet Jesus himself tells us that our sins are as far as the east is from the west, that we are forgiven, that his blood paid the price.
So, no, shame should not be a part of life for Christians.
I'm interested to know how this might affect a relationship going into marriage, if at all. If you're a woman's first in pretty much everything (first kiss, first relationship, first sexual partner, etc.) would that affect how you see her as a person? What if her lack of experience leads to some difficulties navigating the relationship or maybe there's even some apprehension on her part?
These are some concerns of mine and I do want to be the best I can be for whoever God has for me and I don't want my total lack of experience to possibly damage any chance of a relationship, especially being as old as I am.
Well, you're also a little young, and as such are not really part of the group we're discussing. We're talking more about people (not just women, as well) who are a little "longer in the tooth".
I am a 51 year old never married VIRGIN-have dated/kissed guys but not sex and I am not weird/a loser by ANY means! I am attractive, good morals, 31 years with same company-make $53k yearly. I just refuse to give myself to someone other than my future husband firstly because it is a sin and also women must consider pregnancy, etc!:o
I am a 51 year old never married VIRGIN-have dated/kissed guys but not sex and I am not weird/a loser by ANY means! I am attractive, good morals, 31 years with same company-make $53k yearly. I just refuse to give myself to someone other than my future husband firstly because it is a sin and also women must consider pregnancy, etc!:o