Can the church get involved in abuse amidst the congregational families?
Of course, we can and should.
It is time that 'abuse' in Christian circles not be tolerated and ignored anymore.
Some of these abusers are egotistical maniacs, foul mouthed, evil thinking, cruel and shameless. They prey on their victims, they are unfaithful to their victims, they victimize in many ways their victims.
We need to pray for the victims, we need to pray God put a hedge of protection around the victim, and stop the abuser from hurting
them.
We need to talk to authorities, and victim groups to set watch on the abuser and their victims.
We need to have an army of Christians confront in the spiritual realm those evil spirits that are in control of the abuser. Yes, we do need to be the caring intercessors God called us to be !
In Matthew 18, Jesus likens a 'little child' to a disciple, we are told to become like a 'little child', and in so doing we become 'greatest in the Kingdom of heaven'. Then in vs 6, Jesus says,
'But whoso shall offend one of these little ones, which believe in Me, it were better that a millstone were hanged about his neck, and that he were drowned in the depth of the sea."
Jesus adds in the next verse that in this world, it is normal that His disciples be mistreated, but, ''woe to the man, by whom the offence cometh'.
This is not polite, this is not the wimpish talk of most Christian (so called) circles. This is not the marshmallow religion of today, but it is Jesus' teaching. The day of overlooking, ignoring, condoning, pretending ignorance of ABUSE is over.
The church that looks to put binders on the victim of the abuse, and say, 'you can't divorce' are ignoring what Scripture really teaches, and become accomplices to the abuse. If they really wanted to bind one to the marriage, they ought to then, at least, be responsible for guarding them from abuse. But, they won't, and so, it is up to the victim to decide what to do.
Take notice that the abuser is in trouble with the Lord, and the Lord is not one an abuser should think he can bully. The 'millstones' are being gathered, the Lord has tired, the abuser should be sensing the anger of God. They have mocked God too long, they have abused His children, His little ones with no repentance. They are foul minded, evil thinking, vile acting enemies of the Lord, for they have hurt His little ones.
Demons are the origin of such sins, and yet the people who succumb to their temptations, are guilty, not innocent. We rebuke demons, we do not condone the actions of the abusers, but we know the origin of the temptations to be abusive.
We are, in these last days, finding demons seeking to abuse the saints with all that they can. Jesus warned us in the last days that 'perilous times' would come. He also said that there would be great persecution against Christians, great abuse from sinners toward saints.
The devil, in Rev 12 even invades heaven in the middle of the tribulation, to try to get to the saints again, after the rapture has us in heaven rejoicing. The devils are anxious to hurt us all. It is wise to be aware of this. It is wise to be prepared for this.
We need to be praying for each other. We pray for the abused, we rebuke the demonic influence in the abusers, we pray for their souls. We do not condone or help abusers. God is angry at abuse of His little ones.