No matter what I or anyone has said about the necessity or rightness of smacking/spanking our children, your blind and twisted logic is detrimental to children..look around and observe the School playground and family dynamics within the home nowadays and see what's been happening over the last 60 years. Pre 60s, though some aspects of child rearing were certainly not the best, children on the whole new respect for their elders and their teacher..I gave an example in an earlier post about a little 8 year old that was excited that he had punched his female teacher in the face.. The chances are this same little boy would have been physically abused by his parents, that punching, kicking, beating was acceptable and ok behaviour..it is also probable that he would NEVER had been smacked/spanked and taught how to show respect others. Children are being brought up today without respect for others and especially their parents, that violence is ok and acceptable.. I along with my devoted wife have raised 8 happy respectful children, tthroughout their childhood they were all spanked/smacked for defiance, disobedience..they were all taught right from wrong unlike may children nowadays.