I was talking to one of the tenants the other night and we had a long talk about my struggles how I can't cope with being left out or totally ignored or what not. After telling him my personality and how I cope with that and how I have a strong desire to be with my father cause I can't cope with being ignored and or left out he suggested for me to google up "abandonment personality..." I did so thinking it was something new, when I did Borderline Personality Disorder was the only return's that I got from Google.
So I did this one extensive online test (one that had to be the most detailed test) NOW I KNOW that those test are NOT AT ALL compared to what a professional knows but it gives me insight into that topic and if I may have that disorder. The results came up saying that I have a lot of traits of BPD.
I know that I have had a couple of people tell me that they thought I had some BPD traits.
I just can't cope with being ignored or left out.
I feel that I am a MAJOR flaw in this world, I guess cause not only am I ignored by A LOT of people but I am also ignored by society meaning that I can't even keep a guy, marry and have a kid, cause I am not good enough. Like the last guy I talked to who used me, yeah he was a lot older than me and many people say he is a schmuck aka BIG TIME LOSER, I have had so many people tell me that here even, but just the idea of being rejected.........YET AGAIN......... is so hard for me to cope and it seems that this kind of thing is happening MORE AND MORE! Of course I am going to BLAME ME, no one else BUT ME ME ME and this BPD that I have.
Thank you for letting me vent about this topic.
I am and will forever be a loser because I am either rejected, ignored or casted aside!
So I did this one extensive online test (one that had to be the most detailed test) NOW I KNOW that those test are NOT AT ALL compared to what a professional knows but it gives me insight into that topic and if I may have that disorder. The results came up saying that I have a lot of traits of BPD.
I know that I have had a couple of people tell me that they thought I had some BPD traits.
I just can't cope with being ignored or left out.
I feel that I am a MAJOR flaw in this world, I guess cause not only am I ignored by A LOT of people but I am also ignored by society meaning that I can't even keep a guy, marry and have a kid, cause I am not good enough. Like the last guy I talked to who used me, yeah he was a lot older than me and many people say he is a schmuck aka BIG TIME LOSER, I have had so many people tell me that here even, but just the idea of being rejected.........YET AGAIN......... is so hard for me to cope and it seems that this kind of thing is happening MORE AND MORE! Of course I am going to BLAME ME, no one else BUT ME ME ME and this BPD that I have.
Thank you for letting me vent about this topic.
I am and will forever be a loser because I am either rejected, ignored or casted aside!
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