(Sorry the title should be "Married BUT spouse gone away", I don't know how to edit it)
Hi all,
I'm dating (online) a man who has been married (I've just learnt it) to a woman and had a child with her. This woman didn't want to have a baby and told him that she was not supposed to get pregnant because it restrained her from going to club. He begged her to stop being such a kind of woman but when the baby was 9 months, she went away (probably back to her country), leaving the child with him and never returned. Broken-hearted and deceived, he didn't try to find her anymore and now doesn't want to even talk about her.
I told him I was not okay with that situation and cannot have any relationship with him as long as he's legally married. He told me that he'd divorce at the very time the woman shows up but she's missing.
This man is an american and I'm in a very far country from his, so I don't know the laws out there. And as a christian, I also want to know what I can do and cannot do. As for him, he says he fears God but I'm not sure he's born again.
Any advice appreciated, thank you.
Hi all,
I'm dating (online) a man who has been married (I've just learnt it) to a woman and had a child with her. This woman didn't want to have a baby and told him that she was not supposed to get pregnant because it restrained her from going to club. He begged her to stop being such a kind of woman but when the baby was 9 months, she went away (probably back to her country), leaving the child with him and never returned. Broken-hearted and deceived, he didn't try to find her anymore and now doesn't want to even talk about her.
I told him I was not okay with that situation and cannot have any relationship with him as long as he's legally married. He told me that he'd divorce at the very time the woman shows up but she's missing.
This man is an american and I'm in a very far country from his, so I don't know the laws out there. And as a christian, I also want to know what I can do and cannot do. As for him, he says he fears God but I'm not sure he's born again.
Any advice appreciated, thank you.
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