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Lioness901
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Hey I'm Jenny and I have mild autism. I'm struggling with a problem and I'm wondering if anyone here can help me with it. I've already asked for prayers for it but advice I think is good to. I have father issues. I never had a good earthly father figure and I never will. I know GOD is my Heavenly Father and that's wonderful but I need a dad that I can physically see. Can't physically see GOD. Oh I know I can see Him move through people and stuff but I can't actually see Him smile or nod or shrug or anything like that. Can't physically hear GOD either. I know GOD speaks through His Word, people and circumstances but I can't have a conversation with Him like I can with people. Oh I know He hears me and I talk to Him all the time but I don't hear stuff back cause He doesn't do the conersation thing. I read my Bible all the time. I pray alot. I go to Church every Sunday. I been baptized. I'm a member of my Church. I got no gurdges or anything and I've confessed everything I can think of. I go regularly to Celebrate Recovery that's a Christ centered recovery group for any hurt, habit or hang-up. I been goin there for 2 years it'll be 3 years in June. A part of me though just never grew up. There's a little girl inside of me who constantly begs for attention, love and focus. This little girl inside me is constantly saying "please put me in dresses. please put bows in my hair. please buy me presents. please buy me treats. please spoil me. please pay attention to me. please hold my hand. please tell me stories. please tuck me in and scare away the monsters under my bed and in the closet. please laugh at all my jokes. please listen to me. please talk with me. please hug and hold me all the time. please lead,guide and teach me." What am I supposed to do with these feelings?? Pretend there not there?? Ignore them?? Supress them?? I do any of those and I get depressed. Depression runs in my family. I used to get drunk partly cause of those feelings just so I wouldn't feel em anymore. I don't wanna ask GOD to take em away though. I want it to be ok for me to feel those things and to have a father there to do those things for me. Anyone out there have any advice on this??