From my own experience as a parent, I think that most kids see through the pizza parties, rock bands, video arcades, etc. that fundamentalist churches sponsor to bring kids to Jesus.
I don't think kids want to be bribed to love Jesus.
I think that they even hungry, poor kids look at the evangelicals and think, "Are you making me dinner on Wednesday night because I'm hungry and it's the right thing to do, or are you just doing it because you want me to come to Bible Study? (And if you just want me to come to Bible Study, how come you don't make me dinner on other nights?)"
And then, in the other corner, you have Catholicism, where, if someone is considering Baptism, they have to attend a year of classes, and sign promises and papers. And work with a sponsor.
I do believe that faith communities play a big role in people's relationships with God, and belonging to the right faith community is a good thing.
It's silly for churches to compete for members--or knock other churches down and recruit their members. There is a vast mission field of perhaps 4 billion people on earth that aren't Christian--no need to compete.
I know a wonderful young college student, a devout Baptist. He recently went on a mission trip to Haiti--which, according to Wikipedia, is 82-85% Catholic.
So why in the world did he go down there? To rebuild houses? To rebuild schools? To bring supplies and medicines? Heck, no! He went down there to convert them!
He didn't even spend too much time doing anything to help the people physically. He talked to children about Jesus and helped at revivals.
The sad thing is, if he didn't think these people needed his kind of Jesus, his group wouldn't have even bothered going...
I can't wrap my brain around it--why a Baptist youth group would go down to an overwhelmingly Catholic country in desperate, desperate, desperate, desperate physical need and try to sell their brand of Jesus to them!
They didn't need Jesus. They have Jesus. They need: 1) shelter 2) clothing 3) food 4) medicine 5) roads 6) bridges. They don't need the Baptist Jesus when they have the Catholic Jesus.