Hi there,
I've been browsing the forum and reading some heated discussions about wether masturbation is allowed or not.
I wonder if masturbation is allowed and one's a single christian and let's say that normal masturbation became too boring over the years then would it be allowed for female singles to use vibrators and male singles to use devices such as a fleshlight or other vagina simulating toys? I know that the normal fleshlights look pretty gross because they look like real vaginas but there are also versions which are transparent or only have an inconspicuous slit. I also read that using a fleshlight can help controlling premature ejaculations. So let's say a christian single male struggles with premature [bless and do not curse][bless and do not curse][bless and do not curse][bless and do not curse][bless and do not curse][bless and do not curse][bless and do not curse][bless and do not curse][bless and do not curse][bless and do not curse][bless and do not curse] and doesn't want his possible future wife to be disappointed and then practices with his fleshlight would this be a sin if he was able to pull this off without having sexual things while watching TV or listening to music?
Or what if one's a christian male and probably will never get married but at the same time is tempted by the curiousity how having sex with a woman would be like then this temptation could also get him intro trouble for example if there ever was a chance of having sex with a woman like for example if a woman wants to seduce him.
Now if he could get rid of this "curiousity" by getting a device which mimicks a real vagina then he could try it this way without fornicating and then the curiousity would also be gone and maybe he'd even think "Doesn't even feel that good" and then he could move on and not be tempted by this nagging thoughts about how it would feel like. What do you think? I bet for those here who are married it's not that easy to imagine but imagine you're not married and also don't think you'll ever get married then it surely can be a drag to think that you might be missing out on something.
I've been browsing the forum and reading some heated discussions about wether masturbation is allowed or not.
I wonder if masturbation is allowed and one's a single christian and let's say that normal masturbation became too boring over the years then would it be allowed for female singles to use vibrators and male singles to use devices such as a fleshlight or other vagina simulating toys? I know that the normal fleshlights look pretty gross because they look like real vaginas but there are also versions which are transparent or only have an inconspicuous slit. I also read that using a fleshlight can help controlling premature ejaculations. So let's say a christian single male struggles with premature [bless and do not curse][bless and do not curse][bless and do not curse][bless and do not curse][bless and do not curse][bless and do not curse][bless and do not curse][bless and do not curse][bless and do not curse][bless and do not curse][bless and do not curse] and doesn't want his possible future wife to be disappointed and then practices with his fleshlight would this be a sin if he was able to pull this off without having sexual things while watching TV or listening to music?
Or what if one's a christian male and probably will never get married but at the same time is tempted by the curiousity how having sex with a woman would be like then this temptation could also get him intro trouble for example if there ever was a chance of having sex with a woman like for example if a woman wants to seduce him.
Now if he could get rid of this "curiousity" by getting a device which mimicks a real vagina then he could try it this way without fornicating and then the curiousity would also be gone and maybe he'd even think "Doesn't even feel that good" and then he could move on and not be tempted by this nagging thoughts about how it would feel like. What do you think? I bet for those here who are married it's not that easy to imagine but imagine you're not married and also don't think you'll ever get married then it surely can be a drag to think that you might be missing out on something.