Conservativation
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This is it in a nustshell. On the last pages she even says as much that our poor men are bombarded with images everyday and they have it oh so hard and we should support them because they work long hours and have stressful jobs and it makes them weak blah blah blah....
Maybe, just maybe if we stop coddling men and justifying thier weaknesses they would step up.
How about SIN, stop coddling SIN. Men are not being coddled on something. Its sad that this offends you...truly sad.
Someone comes to you for help about something, lets say, and they lay out, oh.....lets see......
Here's a good one
Woman says "I just cant have sex with my husband....we hadd sex for years and it was great but lately things that happened to me in childhood are flooding back, and I cannot do it"
So.....coddle her, or tell her to step up?
Here's another.....someone comes with an addiction to alcohol. They say they grew up with alcoholic parents, started drinking as a teen, and are addicted.
So, tell them all that background is just justification, dont bring that up again as its justifying their sin....just step up and stop it
Or, morbidly obese person says they want to lose weight, they are ruled by their appetite, and they are under tremendous stress, and they are anaturally stressed person......so......is the appetite and stress to be said "SHUT UP ABOUT THAT STUFF!!!!!!!!!!! we dont need to know your excuses you weak moron, it isnt helpful that you justify your sin you idiot, you and your kind just need to shut up and step up!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!"
OR.....how about what we ACTUALLY DO (except of course for those horrible men because things of a sexual nature so offend women we cannot utter them)...what we DO, is ask questions......HEY, heres a new idea especially for women-----------> uh, try to EMPATHIZE???? Are women not the queens of empathy?
Well yes but, er, but, not , no way about this sex stuff, we CANNOT empathize with a weakness in our men friends....or actually well yes we can, just not THIS weakness, because it presses our angry buttons and we cant seem to separate background and explanations of weaknesses for excuses no matter how simply its stated, indeed we REFUSE to separate background info, we REFUSE to empathize, because it makes us FEEL like they are getting away with something.
sheesh its the most uncharitable attitude Ive seen in a long time.
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