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Romanseight2005
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I talked w/ my neighbor last night about the texting. He thanked me for bringing it to his attention. He never really gave it a thought about how often they were texting. He also said he told his wife. I somehow believe him. He said he checked his texting records, and never realized he had 5,200 texts in one month. He gave me info. about what the texting was about, it basically sounded like my wife was bored, and pestered him about my son's baseball. He assured me that he was not going to respond to her texts, but would communicate to the both of us through emails.
My wife is chatty.........very chatty! And I think what I am learning from this is to allow her to talk to me more and for me to listen more. You know we guys always want to "fix" things, when our wives just want us to listen. She also has become aware that she needs to put her phone away when we are alone, and try to spend some quality time w/ me.
The introduction of cell phones has always bothered me. While they can serve a worthy purpose, they can also become an addiction. I use a Tracfone, and purchase minute cards. I never use all of my minutes, so they just roll over. My monthly bill is less than $10. In my opinion, the amount people spend on cell phones is poor stewardship.
She is still hurt about my past comments about her weight issues. I could really use some help there. I feel like this is a subject that I cannot touch......I damned if I do and I damned if I don't sot of thing. She does desire to lose weight. Please tell me how I can encourage her w/o hurting her. She says I do nothing to encourage her. I know the things she needs to do, but she has been unwilling to do them.
Thanks for the prayers!
How about if you approach it all from a health stance, and don't make it about her, but about you changing your eating habits, and her sharing those eating habits with you?
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