CruciFixed
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Yeah. I think I've accidentally taken the thread apart and I'm sorry to the OP. I go on tangents and then I forget where it all started.
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No apology necessary. I'm a "tangent" person myself, and I was hoping for as much dialogue as possible, of all viewpoints, so I could mix and match. I don't see where you did anything wrong.Yeah. I think I've accidentally taken the thread apart and I'm sorry to the OP. I go on tangents and then I forget where it all started.
I guess all this rambling points to one question: Where does "being conservative" become "being a tightwad"?
I wasn't meaning to insult people who shop at thrift stores. Whether by choice or by necessity, there's nothing wrong with it,
Oh, I forgot to mention as well... $40 for a nice jacket that fits you well? That's a steal! I'd love to find something like that.
I decided to rejoice in the blessing! Yep....I hugged my new dishwasher and praised the Lord!
My winter coat is the best I've ever had. You can't get a coat like this any more.
I kinda struggled with the same thing over my new dishwasher...was this an extravagant luxury I could do without... Some people don't even have dishes...or food to put on dishes...
I felt like that when I bought my house. I felt guilty because some people don't even have a roof over their head and here I am buying a whole house! I know that may sound ridiculous but I really struggled with feeling extravagant for buying my first home and that it wasn't right when so many have nothing. Then my mum told me not to be so ridiculous and that I'd be no use to anyone if I couldn't even look after myself, so I needed to be responsible and put my money into a home, a proper investment.
I quickly got over myself and thank God so much for this blessing, I love my little home and truly believe it was a blessing from Him because it was a gift (financially speaking) and I love living here.....
Now I need a dishwasher, haha.
They only call it "outdated" when you did the decorating yourself. If a paid professional designer does the same thing, it's called "retro chic."I've been working on this house...room by room for 5 years now and I'm still not done...LOL...by the time I am finished...everything will prolly be out-dated again!...
They only call it "outdated" when you did the decorating yourself. If a paid professional designer does the same thing, it's called "retro chic."
Personally...I'm a minimalist...I like space and very little clutter...it seems...the more "stuff" we have the more we have to maintain our "stuff" and then all the "stuff" we own....can start to own us....
Isn't it the American way go into deeper debt to buy bigger houses to store all of our stuff that we don't need, that we bought in the first place with money we didn't have, to impress people that we don't even like?
We have a guy at our church who teaches about biblical financial management. One of the points he likes to make goes something like this:
"I don't worry about my car payment, because I don't have a car payment."
"I don't worry about my boat, because I don't own a boat."
"I don't worry about my vacation house, because I don't have a vaction house." etc. . .
They only call it "outdated" when you did the decorating yourself. If a paid professional designer does the same thing, it's called "retro chic."
LOL....how true! I was looking at my chipped and distressed cupboards and thought...people actually pay money to get their things to look like this..."shabby chic" ROTFL...and I considered...instead of painting...maybe just take a brillo pad to them...and folks will think my cupboards look like this on purpose...LOL
Congrats on your home...yes...we should always have joy in what the Lord blesses us with...and your mum is right....owning a home is good stewardship rather than getting no return for your hard earned money by renting.
It certainly is a big responsibility though.
That was certainly a plus in buying the dishwasher....we plan to sell our home ASAP and new appliances will certainly help in the resale value.
It took us three years to replace everything...the dishwasher was the last item on the list...
Now I have to paint my cupboards and replace the wallpaper....
It was OK when everything was from the 70's...I had a "theme" going...
I've been working on this house...room by room for 5 years now and I'm still not done...LOL...by the time I am finished...everything will prolly be out-dated again!...