John, your posts have been awesome again. It is a rough journey getting to where your going and then sometimes it takes a while to adjust. In all things prayer is the most important thing. Before I left Korea, I prayed about my jouney, about my arrival, my luggage, my family waiting... There was so many things to pray about! I didn't know my pilots or those who would serve me on the plane but I prayed for them anyway. This same amount of prayer and dedication needs to be applied to my future spouse. I may not know them yet or maybe I do and God is waiting for perfect time to reveal this to me, that is up to God. What I do know is that I need to be pray openly, honestly and with love for my future spouse. I want him to be walking closely with God so that is my first and biggest prayer.