So my sister is 21 years old and seriously considering getting married right now to a guy she's known for 5 months.
Her boyfriend is going to Iraq in April and they want to get married before he leaves. My family and I are trying to talk her out of this, believing that it will be a terrible decision.
The guy she's with is 27 and he's been divorced once. But that's not the reasoning of our upset behavior.
How can she know what she wants in life at 21 and with someone for 5 months? I know in the end we can only tell her how we really feel, and she's free to make her own decisions.
But what should we do? How can we try to tell her and make her believe that this is a terrible decision?
Her boyfriend is going to Iraq in April and they want to get married before he leaves. My family and I are trying to talk her out of this, believing that it will be a terrible decision.
The guy she's with is 27 and he's been divorced once. But that's not the reasoning of our upset behavior.
How can she know what she wants in life at 21 and with someone for 5 months? I know in the end we can only tell her how we really feel, and she's free to make her own decisions.
But what should we do? How can we try to tell her and make her believe that this is a terrible decision?