..I had different plans concerning the car I wanted to get. I told my mom prior I was gonna give her my checks to help with the rent... But today my aunt sat the car in front of my apartment....I didn't expect that... My aunt has been very kind and nice to me...
Letting me work with her and now this car...but I told my mom I would help her ...so for me to go back on my word is really messed up..,
Though i have helped her previously giving her most if not all of my checks sometimes, you can check my recent threads.. And I feel like I can't progress if I'm doing that.... And I talked to my bf,my friend and my grandma to get different opinions and they all feel pressure is being put on me because I have to give my money away... And it isn't fair when I have a brother that makes more than I do a week
And my dad has been out of work for months and on purpose...but he has the nerve to chime in and be the loudest...
So its unfair I have to do this and they don't have to sacrifice anything.
Even after asking I still feel the need to just pray about it to make sure I'm doing the right thing. The easiest would be giving my mom all my money...and that would keep her happy and everything calm...
But what I want to do and what would make me happy is getting the car...
Idk guys...just pray I make the right decision.
Letting me work with her and now this car...but I told my mom I would help her ...so for me to go back on my word is really messed up..,
Though i have helped her previously giving her most if not all of my checks sometimes, you can check my recent threads.. And I feel like I can't progress if I'm doing that.... And I talked to my bf,my friend and my grandma to get different opinions and they all feel pressure is being put on me because I have to give my money away... And it isn't fair when I have a brother that makes more than I do a week
And my dad has been out of work for months and on purpose...but he has the nerve to chime in and be the loudest...
So its unfair I have to do this and they don't have to sacrifice anything.
Even after asking I still feel the need to just pray about it to make sure I'm doing the right thing. The easiest would be giving my mom all my money...and that would keep her happy and everything calm...
But what I want to do and what would make me happy is getting the car...
Idk guys...just pray I make the right decision.
