Psalm63
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What I meant, actually was that you had earlier referred to how husbands ought to be acting protectively towards their wives, is that not true? So could you sum up in a similar way how wives are to act towards their husbands?
I don't think that was me, McScribe. I have experience with only one husband for 28 1/2 years and he is not a man who has a "protective" bone in his body. If you ask me, he is not all that unique; the reality is that many many husbands out there look out for #1 and aren't the least bit protective. I would like to talk young women out of the fantasy of expecting that and into the reality of standing up for themselves and PROTECTING themselves and their children as needed.
That said, and knowing YOUR story, a wife DOES have a biblical responsibility to protect her husband IMO. I see this in 1 Cor 7 which speaks of benevolence (kindness) in the relationship, and the provision of marriage to meet our sexual needs.
Christian marriage should NOT be characterized by long term sexual deprivation (barring some sort of serious health issue or overseas deployment).
And NOT your story, but continuing my views on a wife's protective role toward her husband: 1 Peter 3 speaks of a MARRIED woman's "chaste/pure" behavior providing a winsome testimony to a disobedient husband (eg. of CHASTE wife: husband into inappropriate content, wife insists on mutually satisfying and respectful sexual intimacy and does NOT morph herself into a harlot "servicing him" on demand like the inappropriate content images of his imaginations) and Titus 2:2 which speaks of a wife being her husband's FRIEND and being sober minded (twice). (sober minded=realistic???, ie. drop the cinderella fairy tale expectation)
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