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Women responsible for sodomy?

Discussion in 'Christian Apologetics' started by dad, May 31, 2009.

  1. dad

    dad Undefeated

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    Since female homosexuality causes the disease, it is equally to blame! Of course. Remember, that the lineages and etc were generally from the men in the Old Testament, women just never got a mention sometimes! The sin of Sodom was a female sin every bit, at least, and maybe more.
     
  2. chaela

    chaela I could be wrong. True story.

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    That all depends on how much value the man is placing upon that
    which he expects women -- or other men -- to provide them,
    doesn't it?

    I'm sure you would agree that we are responsible for our own
    actions, and cannot blame the other guy for what we decide to
    do. :)





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  3. dad

    dad Undefeated

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    Doesn't matter, any more than the value you place on drinking water. Too men is the desire, and need. It is not an extra. Women should realize that, and act accordingly. One cannot expect to cover a boiling pot, and not have the steam get out one way or another. That is foolish, and hypocritical. God allowed for our needs, and even supplies them.

    We are ALSO responsible for our actions and their effect on others! If I rob your food, I would be also responsible if you prostituted yourself to get some, or stole, or etc. If women are not part of the solution, they are part of the problem!
     
  4. chaela

    chaela I could be wrong. True story.

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    People have died from such things as a lack of food/water. Do you
    have evidence that a person has died from a lack of sex?



    Very true. But one can turn off the stove.:)


    He supplies for our needs, yes. And He also gives us
    wisdom to discern the difference between a "need" and a "want".






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    I can't even believe that someone would put forth the idea that a man would turn homosexual because his wife is withholding sex. I served in the military for 13 years 2 of which I was married. I went on several 6 month deployments without my wife and not once did I get tempted to have sex wih another male. That is totally out in left field and if your having those kinds of thoughts, I'm thinking that you have bigger issues than a lack of intimcy with your wife.
     
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    Sounds like you just want to blame someone other then yourself, so you can feel justified by it somehow by saying "its not my fault." As was said earlier in this thread, Adam tried the same thing and it did not work.

    you cant blame women for a guy's homosexuality, that something totally up to the man, no woman can make a guy homosexual. It doesnt work that way from what I understand.

    I have gone years and years without the pleasure of a woman, and never once did I have any desire to try it with a man, the idea repulses me actually.
     
  7. LJSGM

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    For sure. In this sexually saturated society, if one is going to commit fornication, why not with another woman? It's much easier to find than a man that is willing to have sodomy with you.

    Or are you talking about certain men that are not very desirable to women, having to resort to men because women won't give them the time of day?
     
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    If you are at all serious and not actually a troll, you do seem to have a problem with the hatred of women, and that is something very deep rooted in your heart, that no one can fix but God alone.

    I would pray to Him for healing (whatever your mother did, ect)

    And if you are married, I will pray for that, for your poor wife, because you seem to have a bit of a problem with a spirit of control (where the whole "blame game" and judgement and laws come in).
     
  9. dad

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    Do you have evidence that dying from something is what makes it a need? Sex is like love to a man, and part of love. Ever hear of dying of a broken heart?


    Not in the case of a man's life, unless you turn the man off in death! The stove is part of our life, and can't be turned off. Any more than the brain can be turned off, or seeing, or eating.

    In the case of many women, apparently they lack that wisdom still. Sex is a need for men. If you do not realize it, that changes nothing, any more than if you never left a room, to see the sun, and thought it wasn't there.
     
  10. dad

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    Speaking of not taking the blame, you ought to use a mirror on that one. Realizing that the selfishness of women is a root cause of sodomy, is not hating women. I would think ignoring it, and blaming only men is actually hating men. Work on that. I am so tired or a religious cover for pure selfishness, and worldliness, it isn't funny.
     
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    Not sure who that is addressed to. But I was not talking about special men, just men. Whether believers 'desire' their husbands or not is secondary anyhow. If a woman denies a man, she breaks the contract, and if he finds another woman it is anything but adultery. For her, however, it would be, unless she was celebrate the rest of her life!
     
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    False. Since I am not a homo, it is not my fault! Doesn't get simpler than that. Looking at the homos in Sodom, however, and the advanced sin state areas of today, I see that women being extremely selfish, and also lesbians, etc is a root cause of taking away the needs of men.


    Adam did try to pass the blame, and he was right. The woman had a part to play in the thing. You never noticed?? She was a root cause of that sin as well. Fess up.

    That is false. If women did not narrow the pool and deny men their needs, many men, would not be driven to look elsewhere for their needs. A woman cannot assume she is not needed, and just do as she lusts, and wants, without impacting mankind. God only made so many of each. Also, women are responsible for promoting same sex relations, and ungodly sex, or lack of it. Therefore they are of course to blame. No more will they point the finger at men!! They are guilty.

    So??? It repulses me as well. But I am realistic, in that I realize that there is a shortage of women for men. An imbalance. Therfore those less grounded than us, will end up in homosexuality. Some men also do not have a great sex drive, either that, or feel that it must be unnaturally supressed for some silly religious reason. I would not hire you to babysit..sorry.
     
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    No idea what you are talking about. Did I say I had a wife?? Or that I was tempted that way??? No. Try to pay attention.
     
  14. chaela

    chaela I could be wrong. True story.

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    Are you actually suggesting that food and water are not needs? :confused:



    God is your life, not a steady supply of sex.
    And I would not be the least bit surprised that if God is one's strength, a
    sexless existence won't phase them one iota.




    Again, please provide evidence that anyone has died from a lack of sex.

    It would appear you still need to work on sharpening the line you perceive
    between that which is a “need” and that which is a “want.”
    It's not easy, I
    know that, but it's worth the effort.


    PS: Please don't confuse the absence of sex in one's life with their value as
    a person. You are precious in God's eyes, regardless of whether or not you are
    engaged in a physical relationship with anyone. Don't let physical activity of the
    romantic variety be a gauge as to your worth as a human being, because there
    is no connection whatsoever. :hug:



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  15. dad

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    No. I am suggesting that love and sex also are.



    That is like saying God is your life, drinking water is not your life. He has given us a life, however, with certain things provided for. He giveth food to all flesh, for example. He made man male and female for example. To belittle sex, and withhold it, trying to justify it with religious cover is dishonest, I would think.



    There are some eunuchs, yes. Most, of course are not, were never meant to be, and never will be. Some do a prison fast for a month and more as well, does that mean you also should??



    Again, provide proof that death is the criteria of a need? Children need, I read in one study a while ago, love, most of all. More than a big house, fancy toys, the greatest diet, etc. I would think that love is needed in men and women as well, in different ways. For men, sex is a major part, to say the least, of the way they know they are loved.

    Can you show me anyone that dies as a result of not getting saved, and getting God in their life!!?? Gottcha! Will you say that is not a need also now?


    Hopefully, you are starting to see what actually needed sharpening by now. Women may not escapee the blame. Sorry.

    Thanks. I am sure we men try to do all that, if we happen to be in a sex valley. We also should not let riches, or other things be the gauge. So if you live end up in a tent, and eating once a day, and wearing tattered clothes, and having no money, or job, and find maybe yourself handicapped, and somewhat disfigured as well, as well, etc, make sure you realize that you also are loved. And of great value.

    Meanwhile, we all ought to try to not be so selfish, and accept that men need sex, as God has provided for clearly in the word. No withholding! Yes, women also need to feel love, in a different way, and men should try to see that is also done. But don't think your sex desire is ours. Or that your lack of needing it and ability to do without it is supposed to apply to men, No. Vive la difference!

     
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    Dad,

    At any time in your life have you not had a woman available to you for sex? During that time, did you develop a desire to have sex with men?
     
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    chaela I could be wrong. True story.

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    In addition to answering manchambo's question addressed
    to you in post #36, could you also provide Scripture that indicates
    that "men need sex"? Thanks in advance!




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    You are aware that sex outside the marriage bed is fornication? That includes premarital sex.

    Are you suggesting that women should be more open to marrying any man that wants them?

    I for one am very unclear about what you are trying to imply.


    As far as temptation goes, Eve was tempted and sinned, sure, she was held responsible as well as the serpent. Adam sinned as well, and the scriptures say that it was through Adam that sin entered the world.

    Women should submit to their husbands, not as "a duty" but what comes naturally through loving her husband, naturally she should think of him before herself, in her heart. It is the same for a man, the world is full of men that do not give the loving affection that a woman needs to become sexual towards him. It is a complicated matter, which came first, the chicken or the egg? If a man does not show love and affection towards his wife, he causes her to be tempted to sin. If a woman does not care about a man's sexual needs and forsakes him, then perhaps she causes temptation in his life to sin as well. They are both still responsible for their own sin. He is not excused from his sin because his wife caused temptation. It is still his choice and if he is led by the Holy Spirit instead of the flesh, he WILL not fall into sin because he is no longer a SLAVE to sin and the desires of the flesh no matter how much his flesh tempts him.
     
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    I have no women at the moment. No, I thankfully, have zero desire for men. So?
     
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