DZoolander
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You are pregnant. You think he's going to be better to that kid?
I've got 2 kids, and let me tell you, once they come your life will be about them.
How old are you?
I find it interesting that you skipped over my post. You said you wanted an "objective" perspective and I gave you one. Everything I said is objectively true and they are not my commands. They are God's. You are now taking "subjective opinions" from people and only caring about what is comforting to your emotional rant. That is never going to help you. I gave you proper advice and sound scripture. If all you wanted to do was come on here and gossip about your husband, then it was not my place to try and set you on the right path. You are 35, with your first child and you do not have the slightest idea of what your duty is as a mother, as a wife, as a follower of Christ.
(2 Timothy 2:16) Avoid godless chatter, because those who indulge in it will become more and more ungodly.
I'd advise you to stop searching here, get a hold of your nagging and gossiping, find some common ground with your husband and let him lead you. This is never going to stop otherwise. I'm not trying to say that I don't know what problems in a marriage are. I do. I was the one nagging and causing my husband to want to pull his hair out. You have to realize you are to follow him as the Lord has commanded you. If you cannot do that, there will be no hope for proper reconciliation. It should be obvious why your husband feels his authority is being challenged.
It does not matter what anyone says, which is subjective perspective, it is said,
(Epeshians 5:22) Wives, submit yourselves to your own husbands as you do to the Lord.
See how there is no, "only if he does this, only if he says the right things, only if he leads perfectly?"
Know what his command is? (Ephesians 5:25) Husbands, love your wives, just as Christ loved the church and gave himself up for her.
Our God, so perfect and loving, gave His life up for the church.
There is no if, ands or buts about these commands.
So the best thing you could do is let go of the pride you are so obviously full of, open your eyes, ears, mind and soul to accept what your husband is telling you and SUBMIT. I promise you, it will not feel as much of a burden as it does now, once you are able to act like a true woman.
If I did that we would be in horrible trouble. He is not acting rational.
Last night he came into the bedroom and told me he was hearing voices and steps in the house. Said he heard someone call his name.
Then after we fought for hours last night over a decision he already made yesterday (to move closer to my family) ...he woke up this morning and asked what Ive decided ?!!
I can not submit to him. He's not acting rational.
And he's constantly telling me he is going to leave me. Pregnant too!!
And you might just be better off in the long run.. He said if that happens he will go live with his parents. And I will just need to "find my own life".
And make sure he is charged with a good amount of child support.All things considered, I'd tell him he can leave now for his mom's house, keep my job, and serve him with papers. Then raise the kid myself with whatever visitation rights the courts deemed reasonable for him.
This story is starting to read an awful lot like the one that keeps coming back and posting the same stuff....