My Christian husband has left our marriage for the second time. Basically because our marriage is hard, there is no infidelity and we have no kids.
The first time he left I felt convicted to pray for restoration and got many to join me. After months of praying he began to have visions and words from God convicting him to return to our marriage. Three people also told me there would be restoration in our marriage. He was resistant to God at first and after his third vision he eventually submitted and returned.
We had 5 blissful months and then things got super hard again. I would say I was/am in an emotionally abusive relationship. The funny thing is, I saw my husband trying harder than before and drawing closer to God than ever before but while wildly swinging back and forth between submission and giving up.
After four months of tough marriage again, he has left. He has told me he has begged God to not influence him to return to our marriage and God has said "okay". God feels disappointed and is sad but will provide guidance when it's finished. My question is, does this line up biblically? Will God just leave you alone and then help you after you've sinned? Just sorta passive like that? I mean, we have gone to a church that really preaches grace but will God just say ok to that sort of request?
Anyway, if you guys also want to pray for my husband Ryan, and me for guidance I'd so appreciate that.
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The first time he left I felt convicted to pray for restoration and got many to join me. After months of praying he began to have visions and words from God convicting him to return to our marriage. Three people also told me there would be restoration in our marriage. He was resistant to God at first and after his third vision he eventually submitted and returned.
We had 5 blissful months and then things got super hard again. I would say I was/am in an emotionally abusive relationship. The funny thing is, I saw my husband trying harder than before and drawing closer to God than ever before but while wildly swinging back and forth between submission and giving up.
After four months of tough marriage again, he has left. He has told me he has begged God to not influence him to return to our marriage and God has said "okay". God feels disappointed and is sad but will provide guidance when it's finished. My question is, does this line up biblically? Will God just leave you alone and then help you after you've sinned? Just sorta passive like that? I mean, we have gone to a church that really preaches grace but will God just say ok to that sort of request?
Anyway, if you guys also want to pray for my husband Ryan, and me for guidance I'd so appreciate that.
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